Your story is really cute, hope everything goes for the best. As a woman let me say this, sometimes when we are good people you want to stick to promises but feelings can lead you in a different direction. When I met my husband I was deeply in love with someone else who also resided very far. We had promised each other so many things and when you are in a long distance relationship is harder to let go because you just live out of the good memories of the relationship to the contrary of someone that is by you constantly and is easier to see and feel their flaws. My husband knew exactly what he wanted, but I wanted the other guy. Today I am married to him regardless of the strong feelings I had for the other man. What made me realize that I could not afford to loose him was the fact that he stuck around. He traveled and moved where I worked, he Loved me when I could offer him nothing, and was there for me during the grieving process of my other relationship. Personally I could never done what he did. He left to side his jealousy and other emotions to be there for me. I think if you really think she is the one write her a letter of how you feel and be there. Do not attack the guy that she says will marry. My husband never said a word.The point you are trying to make is not that he is bad for her, but the fact that you are better. Don't say anything about him unless she wants your opinion. Show her how are you willing to be there no matter what. Do not give up and if she tells you about how she feels about him don't attack him or her. Show her that you are willing to wait for her and that you are going no where. Women love feeling protected, and if you are there in every way possible he does not stand a chance. Perseverance all the way. If you want her you are going to have to break out of your shell and expose yourself to get hurt, and even if you do ,don't give up. My husband mentality was '; no ring, fair game'; and he won. Show him your the best man. Best of luck.How to tell her i like her?
Just sit her down and tell her. Honesty is the best policy.
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