Girl who has lots of guys around her --> How do I get her?

I just got a crush on her. I have a lot in common with her, like we're both horrible liars (we can't lie without laughing), we want to graduate *** laude (8+ average grade), stuff like that.


I liked her and I want to know more about her, but not in the friend context.


She just hangs out with guys, and I need to stand out from the crowd to make her notice me and indeed regard me as a potential boyfriend.





Now, my approach would be to sometimes ignore her in the hallways, and sometimes smile to her.


And since she's so used on talking to lots of guys, I guess I should let her initiate a conversation and if it starts I'll try to make her laugh and keep her entertained, but maintain some calmness and carelesness.





* Is this an appropriate approach? Is there anything that should be adjusted or added?





Now there's another problem. Usually, when I give a girl a hint I like her, and she happens to like me, she's enthousiastic and treats me like a potential boyfriend. But, as this girl gets and gives a lot of attention to guys, I don't have any clue how to separate the romantic enthousiasm from the friendly enthousiasm.





*So does anyone know or has anyone studied these kinds of girls? What's the thing they do to hint a guy that they want more than just friendship?





Thanks for answering!Girl who has lots of guys around her --%26gt; How do I get her?
You can't.Girl who has lots of guys around her --%26gt; How do I get her?
just tell her straight up.


';I like you and I want to be more than jst friends with you. Wanna go out with me sometime?';


problem solved
When in first year college I met my 芦nice guy禄 boyfriend, he asked me why I had chosen him over the two 芦bad boys禄 that were in our class who were really popular. I told him that I just felt attracted to him mysteriously and we actually had a lot in common too.





So, once she knows you as a friend, don't try to push or coerce her to be with you. This is not a power struggle or a competition with the other guys, it's about being sincerely compatible with each other. So make friends with her and get to know her well, make sure she has similar values.





The fact that she is on a friendly basis with a lot of guys indicates she is not in a rush and will chose carefully, instead of jumping on the first musical chair available because she is insecure.





Now, if you start doing theatrics and ignoring her in hallways and being a mercantile fake, she might feel it and ran away. Personally, I hate any kind of manipulation, as soon as I smell it, I'm gone forever, I don't mind if I have to meet a lot of frogs.
try this.





walk up to her one day completely out of the blue and hand her a single rose.





if she gets all flushed and nervous, that means it means something to her, and then treat her delicately and with care, and let her know that you'd like to share some time with her whenever she feels like it.





if she laughs in your face, or tells you something like ';i'm married'; or ';i have a boyfriend';, that oughtta explain itself, in which case i guess you either move on or become a monk if you wanna hold on to it forever.