Please bear with my long question. Thanks for reading .
I met this girl online and we've been talking for 8 months now, very soon we will meet. she says she likes me a lot but thinks its difficult to be together as we live in different countries, she has never said that she loves me, she is too practical. I love her and i have let her know my feelings.
I can make this relationship possible in real but it will take time. meanwhile she feels alone and depressed about some things in her life and i don't know how to comfort her. i just want to keep her happy some way or the other. at the same time, i am afraid that if she doesn't take me seriously this relationship might turn platonic. i was feeling insecure before, but i have got over it.
She doesn't share her innermost feelings with anyone, not me either .seems to me she doesn't take me seriously.she has had relationships in the past and she was disappointed.
I just want to make her feel better and let her know that shes not alone, someone cares for her. So my question is, how can i do it? She's a damn practical and intelligent girl ( her star sign is virgo, btw and i am cap ).I want to comfort her?
Honestly ... you probably don't really ';love'; her, cause when a guy loves a girl, he knows how to comfort her, that's just my opinion.... but long distance relationships don't work out in the long run, try finding someone near you to date, you and the girl can still be friends. Also, if you plan on not taking that advice, try listening to everything she's feeling, tell her you'll be there for her, no matter what, always remind her you love her, that's the best thing to do.I want to comfort her?
You can't. Don't do long distance relationships. They never work out long-term. Just work on moving on.
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