on her front quarter panel to remove a dent, and caught my wife's favorite flower pot on the back swing. It shattered like my hopes of relations for the evening. My wife won't stop crying. She says it's irreplaceable. I say it's just clay. How do I get her to stop crying?What do I do? I got caught in the garage with my wife's aunt as I was behind her banging?
good. tell her to leave or call the cops.What do I do? I got caught in the garage with my wife's aunt as I was behind her banging?
Tell her to move her pot if she doesn't want it hit, of course!
just tell her your sorry and both of you will go shopping tomorrow to replace a new one or she can buy anything she wants.
You are in more trouble for that than you are if you would have been banging your wifes aunt lol
Ha. Ha.
Quite as funny as your last question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
TROLL
did you put the dent in your aunts car also?
Very funny.LOL
Friday, August 20, 2010
Guys: If you said this, do you like her?
If you text a girl asking about her favorite things (colors, movies, ect.), asking her how her day was, what she likes to do in her free time and so on, do you like her as more than a friend?Guys: If you said this, do you like her?
No, if I texted a girl that, it would mean that I was interested. Answer mine if you can http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Guys: If you said this, do you like her?
nahh..i ask those stuff to friends i just met. its the best thing to ask about when you have nothing to say?
okay very good chance he likes you. please answer mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Probably ^-^ Sounds like he's trying to make conversation :]
not necessarily. i ask those kinds of questions to most new people i meet and even friends i've already had for years. do you like him?
No, if I texted a girl that, it would mean that I was interested. Answer mine if you can http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Guys: If you said this, do you like her?
nahh..i ask those stuff to friends i just met. its the best thing to ask about when you have nothing to say?
okay very good chance he likes you. please answer mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Probably ^-^ Sounds like he's trying to make conversation :]
not necessarily. i ask those kinds of questions to most new people i meet and even friends i've already had for years. do you like him?
I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
My mom has insulted me from the time I was a child, I haven't ever been close to her, I lived with her from the time I born until the time I was 18. She has stolen money from me, manipulated me, lied to me, would take my things out of my room without asking, the list goes on and on. She uses my dad for everything. She inherited $300,000 from her mom when she died. She spent all of it in 8 years, and when she ran out of money, she just kept spending money she didn't have and told me she would just file for bankruptcy. She spent $100,000 she didn't have. When she tried to file for bankruptcy, in the court room the judge told her that if she did that they would take my parent's house. My dad decided to redo the mortgage on their house and pay for her debt instead. He's paying ALL of it FOR her. She has no job, she insults him on a regular basis, almost never cleans, she is 100% a taker.
I've asked him why he doesn't divorce her, and he said he doesn't want to pay her alimony. I can see that he just doesn't know how to get her out of his life. He's told me that he doesn't love her anymore and hasn't in years and years. My dad is such a nice person, it makes me so sad to watch him let her ruin his life.
Because of all of this, I haven't really been able to open up to anyone since I was 15 years old. I opened up to two of the best friends I had at that age, but now I'm just lost. I don't consider my mom to be a mom (I call her my ex-mom) so I have no mother figure. I have no one to tell my problems to, I feel so alone. I've had a boyfriend for a year and I feel so bad for him because I'm not a good communicator.
I clearly need to find a way to learn how to open up to people again and to make some close friends. I won't give up, I know one day it will happen.
In the future I'm going to talk to a therapist.
Does anyone have any advice for me?I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
Sounds as though you have just explained my entire childhood. I now have kids of my own and a hubby of ten years. He as well had a similar childhood. Opening up when a trust has been broken, or worse never was developed is hard. It is really a step by step process. You have to force yourself to take little chances on people here and there, and when they come through for you that is when you will feel more comfortable to take a bigger chance. But it is not something that will come easy to you or comfortably. It is something you have to willingly, and cautiously chose to do. I have learned that MOST people are good and will be loyal. And a small percentage aren't good and won't be loyal. But those people I quickly toss aside and focus on the healthy relationships I have. I have chosen to live a life opposite of what I was forced to live as a child. I have chosen NOT to let my parents poor parenting cripple me as an adult and I put myself out there so I can live life to the fullest!!!
Best of luck sweetie! You'll get there with a little faith and a lot of persisitence.I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
If you need someone to open to and listen to what you have to say, email me at nealllsn@yahoo.com
You may not see this but you have just opened yourself up more than most folks would. It is a good start. One thing to understand is you are afraid to get hurt and that is why you don't want to open up. If you think of it it is kind of like riding a bike. when you were learning you fell and hurt yourself but after you learned it you still rode the bike because it was fun and could take you places you had never been. The same is true when you start to trust people. It will be fun and it will take you places you have never been.
I had a similar upbringing and strangely my father inherited 300,000. My dad put all the money in her name, she hasnt worked in 26 years and doesnt care if she leaves him with nothing in the end. Silly for my dad to do that.
I have always had a bad relationship with my mother and while I do love my father very much I didnt treat him the way he deserved to be treated because he stayed with her after so many years of abuse. I blamed him for my miserable upbringing. I dont know if he loves her but surely he cant? She told him she was glad his parents died and they were just retarded anyway! and I remember being 12 and the only thing I wanted for christmas was for my parents to divorce.
Unfortunately when you inherit so much money it gets your head and all of a sudden you stop caring about things that mattered so much before. My dad never seemed happy with my mother and the reason he never left her was because he was such a decent guy he didnt want to just throw his wife and the mother of his 3 kids on the street with nothing to her name.
All these problems led me to develop conduct disorder, I was physically, mentally and emotionally abused by my mother over a 16 year period. I become abusive, violent and agressive and I was like that all through my childhood and adulthood. As soon as I moved out, I became a very different person. I decided the best thing to do was try my best not to end up like her when It came time to having a family of my own, which I do have now.
I was scared of having boyfriends and the friends I had were short lived thanks to me letting all my mothers own problems get to me. I couldnt open up to people, I was scared I would look like the bad guy and everyone hated ME even though my mother treated me bad infront of family and friends.
It sounds like your mother is suffering from a mental illness and really needs to seek help and so do you. The more you let this get to you, the more you will end up just as emotionally damaged as your mother...BREAK THE HABIT BEFORE IT BREAKS YOU. As for your dad, if I was him and I loved my children I would leave the mother, I would never let anyone harm my children in anyway and staying for the sake of the kids does more harm than good...probably why you are having trouble communicating with your boyfriend.
How you are in relationships depends on the relationship your parents had. It is why some people never get married or why some are in it just for sex...more likely their parents had a bitter break-up and are scared of going through it themselves. I would suggest councelling for all the family.tvs skin cancer
I've asked him why he doesn't divorce her, and he said he doesn't want to pay her alimony. I can see that he just doesn't know how to get her out of his life. He's told me that he doesn't love her anymore and hasn't in years and years. My dad is such a nice person, it makes me so sad to watch him let her ruin his life.
Because of all of this, I haven't really been able to open up to anyone since I was 15 years old. I opened up to two of the best friends I had at that age, but now I'm just lost. I don't consider my mom to be a mom (I call her my ex-mom) so I have no mother figure. I have no one to tell my problems to, I feel so alone. I've had a boyfriend for a year and I feel so bad for him because I'm not a good communicator.
I clearly need to find a way to learn how to open up to people again and to make some close friends. I won't give up, I know one day it will happen.
In the future I'm going to talk to a therapist.
Does anyone have any advice for me?I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
Sounds as though you have just explained my entire childhood. I now have kids of my own and a hubby of ten years. He as well had a similar childhood. Opening up when a trust has been broken, or worse never was developed is hard. It is really a step by step process. You have to force yourself to take little chances on people here and there, and when they come through for you that is when you will feel more comfortable to take a bigger chance. But it is not something that will come easy to you or comfortably. It is something you have to willingly, and cautiously chose to do. I have learned that MOST people are good and will be loyal. And a small percentage aren't good and won't be loyal. But those people I quickly toss aside and focus on the healthy relationships I have. I have chosen to live a life opposite of what I was forced to live as a child. I have chosen NOT to let my parents poor parenting cripple me as an adult and I put myself out there so I can live life to the fullest!!!
Best of luck sweetie! You'll get there with a little faith and a lot of persisitence.I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
If you need someone to open to and listen to what you have to say, email me at nealllsn@yahoo.com
You may not see this but you have just opened yourself up more than most folks would. It is a good start. One thing to understand is you are afraid to get hurt and that is why you don't want to open up. If you think of it it is kind of like riding a bike. when you were learning you fell and hurt yourself but after you learned it you still rode the bike because it was fun and could take you places you had never been. The same is true when you start to trust people. It will be fun and it will take you places you have never been.
I had a similar upbringing and strangely my father inherited 300,000. My dad put all the money in her name, she hasnt worked in 26 years and doesnt care if she leaves him with nothing in the end. Silly for my dad to do that.
I have always had a bad relationship with my mother and while I do love my father very much I didnt treat him the way he deserved to be treated because he stayed with her after so many years of abuse. I blamed him for my miserable upbringing. I dont know if he loves her but surely he cant? She told him she was glad his parents died and they were just retarded anyway! and I remember being 12 and the only thing I wanted for christmas was for my parents to divorce.
Unfortunately when you inherit so much money it gets your head and all of a sudden you stop caring about things that mattered so much before. My dad never seemed happy with my mother and the reason he never left her was because he was such a decent guy he didnt want to just throw his wife and the mother of his 3 kids on the street with nothing to her name.
All these problems led me to develop conduct disorder, I was physically, mentally and emotionally abused by my mother over a 16 year period. I become abusive, violent and agressive and I was like that all through my childhood and adulthood. As soon as I moved out, I became a very different person. I decided the best thing to do was try my best not to end up like her when It came time to having a family of my own, which I do have now.
I was scared of having boyfriends and the friends I had were short lived thanks to me letting all my mothers own problems get to me. I couldnt open up to people, I was scared I would look like the bad guy and everyone hated ME even though my mother treated me bad infront of family and friends.
It sounds like your mother is suffering from a mental illness and really needs to seek help and so do you. The more you let this get to you, the more you will end up just as emotionally damaged as your mother...BREAK THE HABIT BEFORE IT BREAKS YOU. As for your dad, if I was him and I loved my children I would leave the mother, I would never let anyone harm my children in anyway and staying for the sake of the kids does more harm than good...probably why you are having trouble communicating with your boyfriend.
How you are in relationships depends on the relationship your parents had. It is why some people never get married or why some are in it just for sex...more likely their parents had a bitter break-up and are scared of going through it themselves. I would suggest councelling for all the family.
How to tell my mom I'm goin to live with someone I met on myspace?
I really like this guy and i know he's real and i know he's not a serial killer or anything so if u wanna say that then u might as well not answer. Anyways, me and him are both married but seperated and have NO intenetions on going back to our hubby and wife. We live 3 hours from each other and he asked me if i would like to live with him in about a month and see if we really want to be together. Right now, I'm living with my Mom and she knows im talking to him and said im playing a dangerous game and she doesnt think its right to even talk to him because i am married, so how am i supposed to tell her all of a sudden that hes coming to pick me up and im going to live with him? I'm almost 19 years old so she can't stop me but im just wondering how to tell her and also is this a good idea?How to tell my mom I'm goin to live with someone I met on myspace?
wow...your stupid.How to tell my mom I'm goin to live with someone I met on myspace?
Leave a note that says,';Hey Ma, get the rape kit ready. I'll be back in a few days, you know the drill. Cya.';
I would file for divorce to show her its official then tell her that you want to go live with your friend and see if it turns into more...
By not doing it. Getting to know a person is not moving in with them. Also you are eighteen so you do not have to tell your mother anything, you can just leave.
You're 19 and already separated !!??
Living with someone you hardly know is a sure way to hate them, not love them.
';Dear Mom,
I'm an internet whore and I've found a man that will have me.
Love always,
Your myspace slut daughter,
Insert Name Here.';
Wow Married At 18? Thats Pretty Interesting, BUT I Would Just Say ';MOM IM MOVING IN WITH HIM'; Easy As That Shes Not Going To Like It But It Is What It Is.
First, I'd explain to your mother what FaceBook is.
Second, I don't want to be overprotective, but the first time you meet this guy, you should bring a friend. You never know. I'm sure he's fine, but... you don't want to end up on Dateline.
I think moving in with him so soon is a little drastic...maybe hang out in person for a while first. But you can do whatever you want, so I guess the best way to tell your mom would be to say you are an adult and you can do what you want. I always tell people they can lecture me AFTER I make a mistake instead of stopping me in the first place.
wow...your stupid.How to tell my mom I'm goin to live with someone I met on myspace?
Leave a note that says,';Hey Ma, get the rape kit ready. I'll be back in a few days, you know the drill. Cya.';
I would file for divorce to show her its official then tell her that you want to go live with your friend and see if it turns into more...
By not doing it. Getting to know a person is not moving in with them. Also you are eighteen so you do not have to tell your mother anything, you can just leave.
You're 19 and already separated !!??
Living with someone you hardly know is a sure way to hate them, not love them.
';Dear Mom,
I'm an internet whore and I've found a man that will have me.
Love always,
Your myspace slut daughter,
Insert Name Here.';
Wow Married At 18? Thats Pretty Interesting, BUT I Would Just Say ';MOM IM MOVING IN WITH HIM'; Easy As That Shes Not Going To Like It But It Is What It Is.
First, I'd explain to your mother what FaceBook is.
Second, I don't want to be overprotective, but the first time you meet this guy, you should bring a friend. You never know. I'm sure he's fine, but... you don't want to end up on Dateline.
I think moving in with him so soon is a little drastic...maybe hang out in person for a while first. But you can do whatever you want, so I guess the best way to tell your mom would be to say you are an adult and you can do what you want. I always tell people they can lecture me AFTER I make a mistake instead of stopping me in the first place.
How much do i get paid to be on the radio?
I am a rapper. I have a connection with this lady who has an am radio station. She said if i send her my music and it has a copywrite and paper work and stuff, that I will be paid for it. Im just wondering how much they will pay, like the price range. Dnt tell me that I wnt get paid and Im the one who has to pay them, no i dont, the woman told me herself. Thanks.How much do i get paid to be on the radio?
i used to work in radio and they had to pay ascap and bmi $3000/mo to play any music which was copyrighted. this money was arbitrarily divided by ratings and play time which we had to supply every so often. if you figure most songs hover around 3 mins, and thus about 10-15 songs per hour allowing for other programming like commercials and news, psa, etc, an average of 4.3 weeks per mo...
i'd guess no more than $10/mo.How much do i get paid to be on the radio?
I don't care what she told you, you won't see any money. Don't sign anything unless you fully understand it.
i used to work in radio and they had to pay ascap and bmi $3000/mo to play any music which was copyrighted. this money was arbitrarily divided by ratings and play time which we had to supply every so often. if you figure most songs hover around 3 mins, and thus about 10-15 songs per hour allowing for other programming like commercials and news, psa, etc, an average of 4.3 weeks per mo...
i'd guess no more than $10/mo.How much do i get paid to be on the radio?
I don't care what she told you, you won't see any money. Don't sign anything unless you fully understand it.
How to approach a girl in school?
I am a simple soft more (grade 10) and i am really attracted to this one girl that sits to my right all the way down by the end of the class room. i would really like to ask her out, but i feel i am out of her league and i am scared to say anything because of other complications. im not the best looker, but i can really stick out if i want to be my self. ive caught eye contact with her about 3 or 4 times, but im worried she thinks i am staring at her. and suggestions on how to make her mine? should i back away if i feel there is to much competition? she is always hanging out with guys better looking then me, and probably smarter too... i know a few things about her, but not much. i think i am hopeless. any1 have ANY advice?How to approach a girl in school?
if she is too shallow, she doesnt notice you, and goes for the ';popular kids'; she probably isnt right for a nice guy. But you should try to be her friend, dont worry if u get rejected its not the end of the world happens to everyone.
if she is too shallow, she doesnt notice you, and goes for the ';popular kids'; she probably isnt right for a nice guy. But you should try to be her friend, dont worry if u get rejected its not the end of the world happens to everyone.
How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
My best friend lives in Norway and next summer im going to visit her:D
And I want to impress her by learning to speak a little Norwegian!!!
any suggestions??!?!
whats the best way to go about doing this???
your help will be greatly appreciated thank you!:)How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
pick a dialect and get a teacher.. there麓s no standard spoken Norwegian, you might want to study Oslo dialect.How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
WAatch DVDs of movies dubbed in Norwegian.
rosetta stone
And I want to impress her by learning to speak a little Norwegian!!!
any suggestions??!?!
whats the best way to go about doing this???
your help will be greatly appreciated thank you!:)How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
pick a dialect and get a teacher.. there麓s no standard spoken Norwegian, you might want to study Oslo dialect.How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
WAatch DVDs of movies dubbed in Norwegian.
rosetta stone
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