I just recently(a few days ago) lost my best friend. We went out for a little bit but then she dumped me for someone else and I felt so angry, desperate, and sad that I know I didn't help at all. I had tried so hard to get her back. We met on RuneScape a few years ago and have been the best of friends, practically sisters, since the day we met. She said she trusted me with her life. Now she wants nothing to do with me. I've tried sending her emails and little text messages but it's been a few days and I'm not getting a response.
What do I do?
I feel very upset, knowing that it is partly my fault and I've tried apologizing and I've tried explaining things to her but so far I've gotten no response.
What should I do? Should I just give up or wait a few days or weeks and then try again?
How should I cope with the ache? Or should I just try to forget her entirely?(If so, how should I go about forgetting her?) It seems like I'll never get over this. Any advice or tips are greatly appreciated!! Thanks!How do I deal with the pain of losing my best friend? Should I try to forget her?
sounds to me that she is stubborn person, at least you are brave enough to do your bit so now give her chance to do her bit. set limit time like week or a month, if she doesn't response then trying get in touch with againHow do I deal with the pain of losing my best friend? Should I try to forget her?
You should probably let it rest for a few weeks. Maybe she needs some time to think about things. If you haven't heard from her in a few weeks, you could try 1 more time to make contact. If at that time she isn't mature enough to forgive you, try to get involved in some other activities and make new friends. It isn't easy.
You will have to deal with the pain on a day to day basis. If she is not responding, give up. Maybe she will miss you if she does not hear from you for a while. In meantime, work to find other friends to keep busy and in case she does not return to the friendship.
I had same thing happen to me. It was not all my fault the relationship broke, but enough of my fault that I am not loved anymore. Find someone else who will be your friend.
If I were you I'd try to move on and find a girl who is better for you - to do this, just start hanging out with other girls, start getting to know them better; eventually you'll find one who is better for you and who you will potentially LOVE...yes, I dare to use that word, LOVE, as opposed to mere lust.
Just forget about her. Still try talking to her but if she doesn't respond, she isn't worth your time. You shouldn't trust people you meet online anyway.
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