There's this girl I know and I'm always so nervous about going and talking to her, but I've realized talking is not that big of a problem, I can talk and stuff normally, but I can't walk up to her, I really need some help here. Maybe it's because she's mostly around her girlfriends, or some other friends of her, who are guys and I think they like her too. I don't know her girlfriends, and I only know one of the three guys who may like her. I guess that's what's really stopping me, I don't know most of the people she's talking with. What can I do? How can I get up the nerve to go and talk to her?How can I get my mind right and go talk to her? Best answer gets 10 points!!?
I would suggest you go practice what you're going to say in the mirror, or sister. BUT YOU HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO SAY SOMETHING AND BREAK THE ICE! Reason I say this is because from experience and knowing women (not girls), is because it goes back to the beginning of time. Women are attracted to ';Alpha'; men 1st. Either you're going to ';make things happen';, ';watch things happen, or ';not know what happen';. You can bank on ';four leaf clover'; type things to happen (the shy guy gets the girl), but I suggest if you really like her, you put your best foot forward. Think of it as a ';win-win'; situation if you still feel shaky on your approach, If she likes you, you're in the door regardless of what you say (but just say something), if she disses you, you at least got the experience to bank on when it's time to step to that next girl (and there will be another girl). Good luck
Ice Breakers: What you do for fun, compliments (physical, things she have control over) always are good, her female friends are always helpful to know how to hit the soft spot. To make it easy on you, have her doing the most talking.How can I get my mind right and go talk to her? Best answer gets 10 points!!?
Maybe, start getting to know her friends. That way, you wont feel as uncomfortable when you go to talk to her and they're there. Or, possibly, try and talk to her when she's on her own! That way, the conversation will be a lot more intimate, and you will get to know each other better! (:
Also, at time, you may not seem it, BUT LOOK CONFIDENT! Girls absolutely love that! It makes her think that you are willing to talk to her no matter who she's with!
Good luck! ;) xx
Thinnk of a question you can ask her, without sounding like you thought of the question as an excuse to talk to her. And because your already talking to her, then is the perfect oppertunity to strick up a conversation with her...Hope it works.. just remember you only live once, and what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger
Hope I helped (: x x
don't care about what others may think. go up and ask her and her mates to join you for a celebration or event. say the more the merrier. then at whatever event get her alone and talk.
you asked this question already, today, were the answers not to your liking?
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