There's this woman that I've known for several years. We've talked from time to time. I find her attractive like to get to know her better. A while back, I sent her a friend request on, which she accepted. I know that she is single right now. Since I've known her for a while, it would seem kind of strange if I started flirting with her out of the blue. I've always been nice to her, but we are more acquaintances than friends. How can I start getting closer to her without seeming weird?How can I get closer to this woman?
its perfectly fine to flirt with her out of the blue!
just before you intensely flirt make your conversation grow more and more talkative. trust me im a girl and we dont mind when guys flirt with us out of the blue.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to calm yourself down as a person?
well i'm a really hyper person and i think it's starting to piss people off. Like i'm always screaming and running up and tackling people and i hate it. at first people laughed but now they get really pissed when i do it. like yesterday i had the like air heads extreme things and i slapped my friend across the face with it as a joke but i think it hurt her and she got really pissed at me. ow can i stop being such a hyper *****? please tell meHow to calm yourself down as a person?
Exercise!!!How to calm yourself down as a person?
I agree with MissUsa, exercise, meditation sleep and a good diet. If you eat well, exercise regularly and get a solid sleep you will see things change. There are many forms of meditation, you could simply take some quiet time and read a book. Only you can find your quiet spot but when you do it will work for you, it works for me :)
all the things about exercising and all may help but you need to tell your physician. this is not normal behavior. don't freak out, you can get some really good help.
Exercise!!!How to calm yourself down as a person?
I agree with MissUsa, exercise, meditation sleep and a good diet. If you eat well, exercise regularly and get a solid sleep you will see things change. There are many forms of meditation, you could simply take some quiet time and read a book. Only you can find your quiet spot but when you do it will work for you, it works for me :)
all the things about exercising and all may help but you need to tell your physician. this is not normal behavior. don't freak out, you can get some really good help.
How creepy is my husband's relationship with his mother?
I met his mother when we flew up for the funeral of his aunt (his mom's sister). He had warned me that his family were ';kind of hillbillies'; Which I thought was no big deal as I didn't grow up privileged, don't have a great education, and certainly am not wealthy now.
When we got of the plane we went directly to his cousins house and upon entering i was confronted with several relatives of my husband's all of whom had been drinking. His mother briefly hugged me and the pushed me aside to greet her only child (my husband).
we all sat down and she immediately started demanding my husband buy her a new phone as the one he had just bought her wasn't the one she wanted. (mind you this was a very expensive phone and HE pays the bill) he apologized to her and jumped up to make her a cocktail.
the next ten minutes was spent with her practically sitting on his lap pretending not to understand how to work her phone and leaning in to his face and playing with his hair. I decided to go outside for a smoke and they followed. Where they begun to refer to each other using pet names like ';darling'; and ';sweetie';. She held onto his arm the entire time and lit his cigarettes for him.
Once inside again she went into a furious rant about how her surviving sister wanted to sing a song at the funeral, which was the next day, and she was not going to allow it, I innocently asked ';what song was she wanting to sing'; and my mother in law turned to me with the most venomous hate I have seen in ages and loudly said ';IF YOU ASK I WILL ***** SLAP YOU';
I don't come from a family that uses this kind of language, particularly around people we have just met, so I was horrified and said nothing the rest of the night.
At the funeral she insisted sitting between us with her and picked pieces of hair off his jacket and caressed his hair and face for a solid 30 minutes. while he continue to call her sweetie and darling and she to him.
It left me feeling sickened.
Now as it stands she calls constantly and has other members of his family call for her and its always about drama, like her trying to get him to beat up the boyfriend of some random other family member. he sends her money all the time and continues to pay for her cell phone yet I have to pay ALL of our household bills because he is ';broke';.How creepy is my husband's relationship with his mother?
girl your momma in law is a freak and did u talk to your husband about that cause it creepy. you should tell him to turn off his moms phone and help u with the billsHow creepy is my husband's relationship with his mother?
Was there a banjo playing in the back ground? If he is not contributing to the household expenses, kick it to the curb. Send him back to mama. It's that simple. Sorry if you had kids with this weirdo, sounds like there could be some inbreeding in the family tree.
super. creepy.
She either doesn't like you personally or doesn't like the idea that her son is being taken away by some other woman as she seems obssessed with her son. Weird.
Hella weird it is almost like they are the ones married
thats kinda weird.
BEYOND WEIRD...................I SMELL INCEST...........
HEY, HE GAVE YOU THE HEADS UP....
';At some point, the child realizes that there is a difference between their mother and their father. Around the same time they realize that they are more alike to one than the other. Thus the child acquires gender.
The child may also form some kind of erotic attachment to the parent of the opposite sex. Whilst their understanding of the full sexual act may be questioned, some kind of primitive physical sensations are felt when they regard and think about the parent in question.';
Some just don't grow up. Be afraid?? Perhaps you should, perhaps you should.
this is so creepy. she is very obsessed with her son, and he doesn't seem to mind. if not encourage it, however she feels towards him he obviously feels the same way. you need to talk to him about it and tell him how they are acting is romantic and not normal or appropriate and it freaks you out. if he gets deffensive, they may have had some sexual involvment.
When we got of the plane we went directly to his cousins house and upon entering i was confronted with several relatives of my husband's all of whom had been drinking. His mother briefly hugged me and the pushed me aside to greet her only child (my husband).
we all sat down and she immediately started demanding my husband buy her a new phone as the one he had just bought her wasn't the one she wanted. (mind you this was a very expensive phone and HE pays the bill) he apologized to her and jumped up to make her a cocktail.
the next ten minutes was spent with her practically sitting on his lap pretending not to understand how to work her phone and leaning in to his face and playing with his hair. I decided to go outside for a smoke and they followed. Where they begun to refer to each other using pet names like ';darling'; and ';sweetie';. She held onto his arm the entire time and lit his cigarettes for him.
Once inside again she went into a furious rant about how her surviving sister wanted to sing a song at the funeral, which was the next day, and she was not going to allow it, I innocently asked ';what song was she wanting to sing'; and my mother in law turned to me with the most venomous hate I have seen in ages and loudly said ';IF YOU ASK I WILL ***** SLAP YOU';
I don't come from a family that uses this kind of language, particularly around people we have just met, so I was horrified and said nothing the rest of the night.
At the funeral she insisted sitting between us with her and picked pieces of hair off his jacket and caressed his hair and face for a solid 30 minutes. while he continue to call her sweetie and darling and she to him.
It left me feeling sickened.
Now as it stands she calls constantly and has other members of his family call for her and its always about drama, like her trying to get him to beat up the boyfriend of some random other family member. he sends her money all the time and continues to pay for her cell phone yet I have to pay ALL of our household bills because he is ';broke';.How creepy is my husband's relationship with his mother?
girl your momma in law is a freak and did u talk to your husband about that cause it creepy. you should tell him to turn off his moms phone and help u with the billsHow creepy is my husband's relationship with his mother?
Was there a banjo playing in the back ground? If he is not contributing to the household expenses, kick it to the curb. Send him back to mama. It's that simple. Sorry if you had kids with this weirdo, sounds like there could be some inbreeding in the family tree.
super. creepy.
She either doesn't like you personally or doesn't like the idea that her son is being taken away by some other woman as she seems obssessed with her son. Weird.
Hella weird it is almost like they are the ones married
thats kinda weird.
BEYOND WEIRD...................I SMELL INCEST...........
HEY, HE GAVE YOU THE HEADS UP....
';At some point, the child realizes that there is a difference between their mother and their father. Around the same time they realize that they are more alike to one than the other. Thus the child acquires gender.
The child may also form some kind of erotic attachment to the parent of the opposite sex. Whilst their understanding of the full sexual act may be questioned, some kind of primitive physical sensations are felt when they regard and think about the parent in question.';
Some just don't grow up. Be afraid?? Perhaps you should, perhaps you should.
this is so creepy. she is very obsessed with her son, and he doesn't seem to mind. if not encourage it, however she feels towards him he obviously feels the same way. you need to talk to him about it and tell him how they are acting is romantic and not normal or appropriate and it freaks you out. if he gets deffensive, they may have had some sexual involvment.
How should I tell her this?
I'm going to tell this girl how I feel but what should I say I really like her and she's the most amazig person I met, just the sight of her makes my heart skip a beat and it'll be pounding when I know I'm going to see her
also do I tell her in person, on aim write it down?
It's super hard for me to talk to her... Andwe are best friends I hide it well but damnHow should I tell her this?
You just come up to her and say to her exactly what you typed up there.
';She's the most amazing person I met, just the sight of her makes my heart skip a beat, and it'll be pounding when I know I'm going to see her.';How should I tell her this?
You'll have to tell her in person, with confidence, and you might want to keep yourself from gushing. Mushy stuff is good with time, but it comes off as creepy.
You were probably planning some kind of rhetoric to tell her very currently, but I would advise against this. If you want good results, don't make it like a movie; be forward, keep it simple.
Good luck :)
You need to tell her in person exactly what you just wrote down. The worst thing that she can say is that she doesn't like like that and you can go on being friends but if someone where to tell me that i would give it a try. Just have confidence.
A letter would be sweet, If she likes that romantic stuff. If not, just tell her, girls don't wait forever. Tell her all of that, How your heart skips a beat when you look at her. And this is from a girl's perspective, so. Good luck, hope I helped.
tell her in person. or maybe on skype. say something like ';im glad we are friends, and i like you. and we might loose our friendship, but we could also gain so much more'; and see what see says. good luck i hope everything works out
Write a pretty long letter with you handwriting.... but start with a few pretty short and casual letters
Don't break her after that..
Don't indulge in a relationship with someone you don't know whether you would marry or not
Write it in a note! so cuuute!
just tell her straight out how you feel
but never do it over online or texting
always and trust me always do it in person
also do I tell her in person, on aim write it down?
It's super hard for me to talk to her... Andwe are best friends I hide it well but damnHow should I tell her this?
You just come up to her and say to her exactly what you typed up there.
';She's the most amazing person I met, just the sight of her makes my heart skip a beat, and it'll be pounding when I know I'm going to see her.';How should I tell her this?
You'll have to tell her in person, with confidence, and you might want to keep yourself from gushing. Mushy stuff is good with time, but it comes off as creepy.
You were probably planning some kind of rhetoric to tell her very currently, but I would advise against this. If you want good results, don't make it like a movie; be forward, keep it simple.
Good luck :)
You need to tell her in person exactly what you just wrote down. The worst thing that she can say is that she doesn't like like that and you can go on being friends but if someone where to tell me that i would give it a try. Just have confidence.
A letter would be sweet, If she likes that romantic stuff. If not, just tell her, girls don't wait forever. Tell her all of that, How your heart skips a beat when you look at her. And this is from a girl's perspective, so. Good luck, hope I helped.
tell her in person. or maybe on skype. say something like ';im glad we are friends, and i like you. and we might loose our friendship, but we could also gain so much more'; and see what see says. good luck i hope everything works out
Write a pretty long letter with you handwriting.... but start with a few pretty short and casual letters
Don't break her after that..
Don't indulge in a relationship with someone you don't know whether you would marry or not
Write it in a note! so cuuute!
just tell her straight out how you feel
but never do it over online or texting
always and trust me always do it in person
How to deal with an obsessive person?
I've known this girl for a decade, both in primary and secondary school [where we are now]. We never were close, until we began high school, where she started latching onto me. She started to copy my mannerisms and appearance, and use me for competition in everything from grades to friends. I confronted her about such, and during a brief period I spent at another school [for various reasons], she became rather bitter, and even violent at points- she tried to push me into a road. Upon my return, she tried to patch things back up.
As time has gone on, she's gotten worse. The girl's always been immature for her age and rather hyper [whereas I'm the opposite way], but now she's become obsessive and possessive to an almost dangerous point. I'm not allowed to talk to other people without her presence [she even talks for me at times], she's constantly trying to hug me or touch me [I hate physical things as such], she drains me. She never supports me, yet expects me to listen to all of her concerns. She's also blatantly homophobic in front of me, which she knows I'm a little sensitive about.
It's been on my mind even more lately, because friends and classmates keep commenting to me about her behaviour. She has been stirring up trouble and upsetting people for her own entertainment, and she lies through her teeth. My mother said the other day when she was in hysterical laughter that it was 'almost frightening'.
I tried to think of reasons why she'd be like this, any difficulties she might have had or be having. But she doesn't. She doesn't have a mental disorder, she has a happy, stable home life and a rather supportive family. She isn't being bullied either. Her life is average.
I've tried to confront her about things, but she never changes her ways. And I have to room and travel with her on a school trip, for 4 days. She's in all of my lessons, and although I've blocked her on social networking sites and instant messaging, I can't block her from real life.
I have no idea what to do. She won't leave me alone.How to deal with an obsessive person?
OK.this HAS to stop
You need to do something about this SOON,before it gets too out of hand to cope with.
At school,TALK to your teacher about how out of hand the situation is,and get your Mum to speak to the principal or headmaster/mistress of your school. Tell your teacher all of the points you've listed here and explain how upset it is making you and you just want it OVER with. At school, do not talk to her as much as usual. If you blank someone,they usually become bored and will stop.
If this DOESN'T work,then go to your teacher again until the problem is resolved. Also, with your Mum,speak to the principal, and an option of swapping classes? Try talking to your OTHER friends,explaining how much you really love them,and ask them to be your partner for things.When the obsessive girl asks to be your partner or sit next to you, politely tell them no sorry I am with so-and-so. This will maybe aggravate them and they can move on. Keep this GOING!
So DO these:
1.Speak to your Mum about seeing the principal.
2.Speak to your TEACHER.
3.Speak to your friends.
4.Just go up to the girl,AND BE BRUTAL! 'I do not want to spend MY WHOLE TIME WITH YOU!'
Hope this HELPS! :)How to deal with an obsessive person?
Ok listen here are some options:
1. Tell a teacher or an adult you trust.
2. Try to blank her out get some new friends and ignore her.
3. Move away from the area.
4. Go to a different school.
and maybe you shouldn't go on the trip with her..
I hope I helped! :D
Well you call her and tell her to back off and give you some space for a while! you should find some new friends and rub it in her face! no jk tell her how you feel, and if she still keeps bothering you tell her parents or talk to them about her.
is this a lovers spat?? or just some crazed girl?? either way I think you should put some distance between you two. she has issues and needs help..
I think you should try distancing from her and if she becomes violent you should talk to the principal and maybe get a restraining order she sounds kinda crazy.
She needs help.
She's jealous of you and not respecting your need for space
Stand up to her firmly and tell her the home-truths to her
I think generally she's greedy-selfish and unhappy within
her own life. Plus jealous as well.
I think she is mental hunni
You write: She doesn't have a mental disorder
I think you are wrong there. From what you've described, I think she does have a problem.
It is time for you (and your parents!) to bring this girl's problem to the attention of others . . . trusted teachers, your principal, your guidance counselor.
If the young lady is constantly touching you and will not allow you to talk with others, then you are certainly right to bring these concerns to the principal and request action. This does not sound like a safe situation for you at all.
sorry m8 dont know what to say.
perhaps u should approach her parents as a first call.
see what thier responce is and go from there .
good luck
I had a friend just like this, we were friends for years (my mum would say ';but you've been friends for 9 years, your like sisters.'; which made it harder to break up.my friend was VERY controlling and wouldnt like me talking to anyone else, she would be very clingy and be really embarressing. I tryed to ignore her to try and stop her being so clingy, but nothing worked. So in the end i just told her the truth, honesty is the best policy. hope everything goes alright (Y) :)
As time has gone on, she's gotten worse. The girl's always been immature for her age and rather hyper [whereas I'm the opposite way], but now she's become obsessive and possessive to an almost dangerous point. I'm not allowed to talk to other people without her presence [she even talks for me at times], she's constantly trying to hug me or touch me [I hate physical things as such], she drains me. She never supports me, yet expects me to listen to all of her concerns. She's also blatantly homophobic in front of me, which she knows I'm a little sensitive about.
It's been on my mind even more lately, because friends and classmates keep commenting to me about her behaviour. She has been stirring up trouble and upsetting people for her own entertainment, and she lies through her teeth. My mother said the other day when she was in hysterical laughter that it was 'almost frightening'.
I tried to think of reasons why she'd be like this, any difficulties she might have had or be having. But she doesn't. She doesn't have a mental disorder, she has a happy, stable home life and a rather supportive family. She isn't being bullied either. Her life is average.
I've tried to confront her about things, but she never changes her ways. And I have to room and travel with her on a school trip, for 4 days. She's in all of my lessons, and although I've blocked her on social networking sites and instant messaging, I can't block her from real life.
I have no idea what to do. She won't leave me alone.How to deal with an obsessive person?
OK.this HAS to stop
You need to do something about this SOON,before it gets too out of hand to cope with.
At school,TALK to your teacher about how out of hand the situation is,and get your Mum to speak to the principal or headmaster/mistress of your school. Tell your teacher all of the points you've listed here and explain how upset it is making you and you just want it OVER with. At school, do not talk to her as much as usual. If you blank someone,they usually become bored and will stop.
If this DOESN'T work,then go to your teacher again until the problem is resolved. Also, with your Mum,speak to the principal, and an option of swapping classes? Try talking to your OTHER friends,explaining how much you really love them,and ask them to be your partner for things.When the obsessive girl asks to be your partner or sit next to you, politely tell them no sorry I am with so-and-so. This will maybe aggravate them and they can move on. Keep this GOING!
So DO these:
1.Speak to your Mum about seeing the principal.
2.Speak to your TEACHER.
3.Speak to your friends.
4.Just go up to the girl,AND BE BRUTAL! 'I do not want to spend MY WHOLE TIME WITH YOU!'
Hope this HELPS! :)How to deal with an obsessive person?
Ok listen here are some options:
1. Tell a teacher or an adult you trust.
2. Try to blank her out get some new friends and ignore her.
3. Move away from the area.
4. Go to a different school.
and maybe you shouldn't go on the trip with her..
I hope I helped! :D
Well you call her and tell her to back off and give you some space for a while! you should find some new friends and rub it in her face! no jk tell her how you feel, and if she still keeps bothering you tell her parents or talk to them about her.
is this a lovers spat?? or just some crazed girl?? either way I think you should put some distance between you two. she has issues and needs help..
I think you should try distancing from her and if she becomes violent you should talk to the principal and maybe get a restraining order she sounds kinda crazy.
She needs help.
She's jealous of you and not respecting your need for space
Stand up to her firmly and tell her the home-truths to her
I think generally she's greedy-selfish and unhappy within
her own life. Plus jealous as well.
I think she is mental hunni
You write: She doesn't have a mental disorder
I think you are wrong there. From what you've described, I think she does have a problem.
It is time for you (and your parents!) to bring this girl's problem to the attention of others . . . trusted teachers, your principal, your guidance counselor.
If the young lady is constantly touching you and will not allow you to talk with others, then you are certainly right to bring these concerns to the principal and request action. This does not sound like a safe situation for you at all.
sorry m8 dont know what to say.
perhaps u should approach her parents as a first call.
see what thier responce is and go from there .
good luck
I had a friend just like this, we were friends for years (my mum would say ';but you've been friends for 9 years, your like sisters.'; which made it harder to break up.my friend was VERY controlling and wouldnt like me talking to anyone else, she would be very clingy and be really embarressing. I tryed to ignore her to try and stop her being so clingy, but nothing worked. So in the end i just told her the truth, honesty is the best policy. hope everything goes alright (Y) :)
How can you tell your getting clingy in a relationship?
i think my friend is addicted to her relationship...how can you tell if your girlfriend is getting too clingy? And how do you think you can prevent it?
Anyone with expeirence?How can you tell your getting clingy in a relationship?
Some people are clingy, others aren't. It's natural behaviour either way and a hard thing to try and change.
Some people associate great feelings with a person, therefore always want to be around them in order to feel good. That's why a lot of girls/guys become clingy.How can you tell your getting clingy in a relationship?
you know she's clingy if she says ';without you i would wanna die'; or anything with death. this shows she's desperate and hopes to get to your sensitive side to save the relationship. as far as preventing it i suggest saying, (even if it is false) ';i could never leave you'; this eliminates the desire for the girl to ';cling';
I don't really see clingy as a problem as long as they have been dating for a while, but it's just the feeling you get when your in a new relationship. I would say to you as my advice to stay out of this and let them handle their relationship as time goes on.
You can tell if they are constantly together! nonstop!
when they eat, shop, go to the coroner store...ect ect.
(and if the guy hates it expect tears)
if your friends talks about him all the time to the point where its really annoying or all she wants to do is call him.
if she talks about him 24/7
isnt happy unless shes with him
calls him constantly
blahblahblah.
Anyone with expeirence?How can you tell your getting clingy in a relationship?
Some people are clingy, others aren't. It's natural behaviour either way and a hard thing to try and change.
Some people associate great feelings with a person, therefore always want to be around them in order to feel good. That's why a lot of girls/guys become clingy.How can you tell your getting clingy in a relationship?
you know she's clingy if she says ';without you i would wanna die'; or anything with death. this shows she's desperate and hopes to get to your sensitive side to save the relationship. as far as preventing it i suggest saying, (even if it is false) ';i could never leave you'; this eliminates the desire for the girl to ';cling';
I don't really see clingy as a problem as long as they have been dating for a while, but it's just the feeling you get when your in a new relationship. I would say to you as my advice to stay out of this and let them handle their relationship as time goes on.
You can tell if they are constantly together! nonstop!
when they eat, shop, go to the coroner store...ect ect.
(and if the guy hates it expect tears)
if your friends talks about him all the time to the point where its really annoying or all she wants to do is call him.
if she talks about him 24/7
isnt happy unless shes with him
calls him constantly
blahblahblah.
How would you approach this situation without setting an unstable person off again?
I'll try and keep this as short as I can because it is complicated. I used to be friends with a lady who lives in this building where I live, but this is before I found out what kind of person she is.
We used to hang out for coffee mornings with the other neighbours, talk about work etc and got each other through some difficult times. We did what most friendly neighbours did; buying birthday gifts for each other etc
But one day I made a terrible mistake that goes against my usual sensibilities. I was always taught ';neither a borrower nor lender be'; and always stuck to that, but on this particular day a few years ao, I was in a jam. I had been laid off from my job and was stuck for the rent that month.
She offered to help out and I refused, saying that I would try to find another way to pay it (maybe sell a piece of furniture or other item) but she was very persisitant. I told her that I didn't want to do that because I didn't know how or when I could pay her back - she told me not to worry about that. She pushed and pushed telling me that I could pay it back whenever I could and that it didn't matter. So I caved and took the offer.
It was hard because I couldn't find a job right away and I was receiving unemployment money, so I paid her in dribs and drabs as best that I could each week. Then one day things changed. I received a note under my door asking for the rest of the money. I went down to see her and explained that I was doing my best to pay it back. She seemed okay with that. Then came emails and notes containing things like ';if you want a peaceful life, if I were you I would pay it back. I need the money';. Each time the notes became more threatening, insulting and nasty. I kept them all in case things got worse.
I landed the job that I have now, and was in training. She came into the store and threatened me and my job but she did it in a way that didn't draw attention to her, so no witnesses. When I got home, I called the police and showed them the notes. She was told to stay away from me by the police and the landlord - it didn't work. The notes kept coming. She was becoming a bully.
When my tax rebate came, I paid her the rest of her money. But that wasn't enough for her. I came home from my mother's birthday last year and there was another note under my door but it was just insulting and dragging up things from the past - she was picking a fight because she had nothing to pin on me anymore. I lost it. I was so tired of the notes day after day, month after month that I took the note and threw it down the stairs where he front door is and yelled ';Stop with the notes, you f***ing b*tch';. She came out and there was a massive argument and I was telling her that she's got her money so she has no reason to even talk to me anymore let alone give me notes. That was the end of that - or so I thought.
My cat died last week and people around her knew how upset I was and I received a sympathy card from her under my door. I sent a thank you note - because I was always taught that is the polite thing to do and now, in her mind, she thinks we are friends again. I think otherwise, because I think she is a sociopath and do not want to be friends with her again.
At the weekend, I received another note from her inviting me to take a break away somewhere in August! I do not want to, as you can imagine and I don't want to make excuses because I don't think that will make her stop. I want to tell her why I do not want to go without being nasty or insulting but don't know how to drive the message home.
Any reasonable suggestions are welcome - what would you do?
Thank you in advance and sorry that this is so long, but I had to let you know what I am dealing with here.How would you approach this situation without setting an unstable person off again?
I think you should tell her face to face that although you appreciate the offer you don't want to go because of the recent trouble between the two of you. Tell her your happy just to remain neighbours and then just walk away. Also i think it would be a good idea to have a friend with you just in case she says something nasty then you have a wittness. You have to be honest with her though. Don't say anything she could take the wrong way.
Good luck.How would you approach this situation without setting an unstable person off again?
i have no idear
You have my sympathy. Dealing with someone as erratic and unstable as that is very difficult indeed.
One near neighbour appeared to be friendly %26amp; full of fun when she first moved in, in reality she was totally unhinged. She eventually attacked her next door neighbour by throwing eggs at her rear windows, she then turned her attention to me, leaving disgusting messages in large print on her car outside my house. Fortunately she left the area.
A while later an absolute hell cat moved in next door, she was foul mouthed %26amp; I became a nervous wreck. Someone nearby heard her %26amp; reported her behaviour to the police %26amp; though she received several visits from them she still kept on. Eventually I reached the point where I could no longer cope with the abuse so we put the house up for sale %26amp; moved out- this was from a loively neighbourhood I might add.
Reconciliation doesn`t work with mindless people like that %26amp; the police %26amp; authorities can only do so much. Better to find other living quarters.
Ok well let me say this first WOW you have went threw a lot with this women, so here is my answer to you. One you are going to have to talk with her about this because she is inviting you places and wanting you to do stuff. There for you cant just leave the peace of just letting it slide and staying away as much as you can. Try to pick a good time when you know she is in a good mood, simply say so there is something I would like to talk to you about with out you getting mad. Just ask (I was wondering what really happened for you to be so angry with me). Tell her this is not to cause a fight I just want to understand what I did to make you so mad at me for you to act the way you did. After she answers just tell her how upset it made you and what your thoughts are. Or you can do it the easy way and just come right out and tell her its not a good idea for us to hang out anymore after all that. When dealing with someone like this those are really the only things you can do, but I wish you the best of luck on this hard road.
Wow, Deppy...that is scary! I've been in similar situations...not with borrowing money, but with befriending the wrong people. Once I went to lunch with a woman I considered a friend. She spent time telling me that I was a terrible person after I confided in her. At the time, I was very depressed and nearly suicidal. She made me cry in front of everyone in the restaurant. She did not apologize for her actions. I never want to hear from her again.
This person is obviously nuts. She needs help. You need to let your neighbor know that her behavior is unacceptable. Tell her: ';I appreciate the offer, but no thanks';.
After what happened with the threats and harassment, you shouldn't even THINK about going anywhere with her.
Be nice about it, but be firm. She sounds very unstable. Please be careful.
Id just tell her straight, and very importantly id do it with a very calm voice tone, and id also tell her to never offer you anything more, as you now know it has unseen strings,and also why you feel like this. And that you consider it not a good thing to cultivate a friendship. Better to leave it like that! be friendly but do not get involved anymore. good luck
you have to tell her that you were really hurt by what she did and there was alot of damage done, it will take some time to get to a place where you feel like you can trust her to respect your feelings.
also you have to look at what was your part in all of this?....... maybe she expected that if you could have found the money for rent somewhere else for the landlord in a week or whatever, , you could have found it for her. I am pretty sure she didnt feel too loved and hurt by the fact that she was a lesser priority than your landlord month after month.......... just saying....
Just inform her you can not afford it, and feel uncomfortable with going after all thats happened.simple as, if she starts to get nasty again you can then tell her that she has just proved your point.
We used to hang out for coffee mornings with the other neighbours, talk about work etc and got each other through some difficult times. We did what most friendly neighbours did; buying birthday gifts for each other etc
But one day I made a terrible mistake that goes against my usual sensibilities. I was always taught ';neither a borrower nor lender be'; and always stuck to that, but on this particular day a few years ao, I was in a jam. I had been laid off from my job and was stuck for the rent that month.
She offered to help out and I refused, saying that I would try to find another way to pay it (maybe sell a piece of furniture or other item) but she was very persisitant. I told her that I didn't want to do that because I didn't know how or when I could pay her back - she told me not to worry about that. She pushed and pushed telling me that I could pay it back whenever I could and that it didn't matter. So I caved and took the offer.
It was hard because I couldn't find a job right away and I was receiving unemployment money, so I paid her in dribs and drabs as best that I could each week. Then one day things changed. I received a note under my door asking for the rest of the money. I went down to see her and explained that I was doing my best to pay it back. She seemed okay with that. Then came emails and notes containing things like ';if you want a peaceful life, if I were you I would pay it back. I need the money';. Each time the notes became more threatening, insulting and nasty. I kept them all in case things got worse.
I landed the job that I have now, and was in training. She came into the store and threatened me and my job but she did it in a way that didn't draw attention to her, so no witnesses. When I got home, I called the police and showed them the notes. She was told to stay away from me by the police and the landlord - it didn't work. The notes kept coming. She was becoming a bully.
When my tax rebate came, I paid her the rest of her money. But that wasn't enough for her. I came home from my mother's birthday last year and there was another note under my door but it was just insulting and dragging up things from the past - she was picking a fight because she had nothing to pin on me anymore. I lost it. I was so tired of the notes day after day, month after month that I took the note and threw it down the stairs where he front door is and yelled ';Stop with the notes, you f***ing b*tch';. She came out and there was a massive argument and I was telling her that she's got her money so she has no reason to even talk to me anymore let alone give me notes. That was the end of that - or so I thought.
My cat died last week and people around her knew how upset I was and I received a sympathy card from her under my door. I sent a thank you note - because I was always taught that is the polite thing to do and now, in her mind, she thinks we are friends again. I think otherwise, because I think she is a sociopath and do not want to be friends with her again.
At the weekend, I received another note from her inviting me to take a break away somewhere in August! I do not want to, as you can imagine and I don't want to make excuses because I don't think that will make her stop. I want to tell her why I do not want to go without being nasty or insulting but don't know how to drive the message home.
Any reasonable suggestions are welcome - what would you do?
Thank you in advance and sorry that this is so long, but I had to let you know what I am dealing with here.How would you approach this situation without setting an unstable person off again?
I think you should tell her face to face that although you appreciate the offer you don't want to go because of the recent trouble between the two of you. Tell her your happy just to remain neighbours and then just walk away. Also i think it would be a good idea to have a friend with you just in case she says something nasty then you have a wittness. You have to be honest with her though. Don't say anything she could take the wrong way.
Good luck.How would you approach this situation without setting an unstable person off again?
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You have my sympathy. Dealing with someone as erratic and unstable as that is very difficult indeed.
One near neighbour appeared to be friendly %26amp; full of fun when she first moved in, in reality she was totally unhinged. She eventually attacked her next door neighbour by throwing eggs at her rear windows, she then turned her attention to me, leaving disgusting messages in large print on her car outside my house. Fortunately she left the area.
A while later an absolute hell cat moved in next door, she was foul mouthed %26amp; I became a nervous wreck. Someone nearby heard her %26amp; reported her behaviour to the police %26amp; though she received several visits from them she still kept on. Eventually I reached the point where I could no longer cope with the abuse so we put the house up for sale %26amp; moved out- this was from a loively neighbourhood I might add.
Reconciliation doesn`t work with mindless people like that %26amp; the police %26amp; authorities can only do so much. Better to find other living quarters.
Ok well let me say this first WOW you have went threw a lot with this women, so here is my answer to you. One you are going to have to talk with her about this because she is inviting you places and wanting you to do stuff. There for you cant just leave the peace of just letting it slide and staying away as much as you can. Try to pick a good time when you know she is in a good mood, simply say so there is something I would like to talk to you about with out you getting mad. Just ask (I was wondering what really happened for you to be so angry with me). Tell her this is not to cause a fight I just want to understand what I did to make you so mad at me for you to act the way you did. After she answers just tell her how upset it made you and what your thoughts are. Or you can do it the easy way and just come right out and tell her its not a good idea for us to hang out anymore after all that. When dealing with someone like this those are really the only things you can do, but I wish you the best of luck on this hard road.
Wow, Deppy...that is scary! I've been in similar situations...not with borrowing money, but with befriending the wrong people. Once I went to lunch with a woman I considered a friend. She spent time telling me that I was a terrible person after I confided in her. At the time, I was very depressed and nearly suicidal. She made me cry in front of everyone in the restaurant. She did not apologize for her actions. I never want to hear from her again.
This person is obviously nuts. She needs help. You need to let your neighbor know that her behavior is unacceptable. Tell her: ';I appreciate the offer, but no thanks';.
After what happened with the threats and harassment, you shouldn't even THINK about going anywhere with her.
Be nice about it, but be firm. She sounds very unstable. Please be careful.
Id just tell her straight, and very importantly id do it with a very calm voice tone, and id also tell her to never offer you anything more, as you now know it has unseen strings,and also why you feel like this. And that you consider it not a good thing to cultivate a friendship. Better to leave it like that! be friendly but do not get involved anymore. good luck
you have to tell her that you were really hurt by what she did and there was alot of damage done, it will take some time to get to a place where you feel like you can trust her to respect your feelings.
also you have to look at what was your part in all of this?....... maybe she expected that if you could have found the money for rent somewhere else for the landlord in a week or whatever, , you could have found it for her. I am pretty sure she didnt feel too loved and hurt by the fact that she was a lesser priority than your landlord month after month.......... just saying....
Just inform her you can not afford it, and feel uncomfortable with going after all thats happened.simple as, if she starts to get nasty again you can then tell her that she has just proved your point.
What do I do? I got caught in the garage with my wife's aunt as I was behind her banging?
on her front quarter panel to remove a dent, and caught my wife's favorite flower pot on the back swing. It shattered like my hopes of relations for the evening. My wife won't stop crying. She says it's irreplaceable. I say it's just clay. How do I get her to stop crying?What do I do? I got caught in the garage with my wife's aunt as I was behind her banging?
good. tell her to leave or call the cops.What do I do? I got caught in the garage with my wife's aunt as I was behind her banging?
Tell her to move her pot if she doesn't want it hit, of course!
just tell her your sorry and both of you will go shopping tomorrow to replace a new one or she can buy anything she wants.
You are in more trouble for that than you are if you would have been banging your wifes aunt lol
Ha. Ha.
Quite as funny as your last question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
TROLL
did you put the dent in your aunts car also?
Very funny.LOL
good. tell her to leave or call the cops.What do I do? I got caught in the garage with my wife's aunt as I was behind her banging?
Tell her to move her pot if she doesn't want it hit, of course!
just tell her your sorry and both of you will go shopping tomorrow to replace a new one or she can buy anything she wants.
You are in more trouble for that than you are if you would have been banging your wifes aunt lol
Ha. Ha.
Quite as funny as your last question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
TROLL
did you put the dent in your aunts car also?
Very funny.LOL
Guys: If you said this, do you like her?
If you text a girl asking about her favorite things (colors, movies, ect.), asking her how her day was, what she likes to do in her free time and so on, do you like her as more than a friend?Guys: If you said this, do you like her?
No, if I texted a girl that, it would mean that I was interested. Answer mine if you can http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Guys: If you said this, do you like her?
nahh..i ask those stuff to friends i just met. its the best thing to ask about when you have nothing to say?
okay very good chance he likes you. please answer mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Probably ^-^ Sounds like he's trying to make conversation :]
not necessarily. i ask those kinds of questions to most new people i meet and even friends i've already had for years. do you like him?
No, if I texted a girl that, it would mean that I was interested. Answer mine if you can http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Guys: If you said this, do you like her?
nahh..i ask those stuff to friends i just met. its the best thing to ask about when you have nothing to say?
okay very good chance he likes you. please answer mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Probably ^-^ Sounds like he's trying to make conversation :]
not necessarily. i ask those kinds of questions to most new people i meet and even friends i've already had for years. do you like him?
I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
My mom has insulted me from the time I was a child, I haven't ever been close to her, I lived with her from the time I born until the time I was 18. She has stolen money from me, manipulated me, lied to me, would take my things out of my room without asking, the list goes on and on. She uses my dad for everything. She inherited $300,000 from her mom when she died. She spent all of it in 8 years, and when she ran out of money, she just kept spending money she didn't have and told me she would just file for bankruptcy. She spent $100,000 she didn't have. When she tried to file for bankruptcy, in the court room the judge told her that if she did that they would take my parent's house. My dad decided to redo the mortgage on their house and pay for her debt instead. He's paying ALL of it FOR her. She has no job, she insults him on a regular basis, almost never cleans, she is 100% a taker.
I've asked him why he doesn't divorce her, and he said he doesn't want to pay her alimony. I can see that he just doesn't know how to get her out of his life. He's told me that he doesn't love her anymore and hasn't in years and years. My dad is such a nice person, it makes me so sad to watch him let her ruin his life.
Because of all of this, I haven't really been able to open up to anyone since I was 15 years old. I opened up to two of the best friends I had at that age, but now I'm just lost. I don't consider my mom to be a mom (I call her my ex-mom) so I have no mother figure. I have no one to tell my problems to, I feel so alone. I've had a boyfriend for a year and I feel so bad for him because I'm not a good communicator.
I clearly need to find a way to learn how to open up to people again and to make some close friends. I won't give up, I know one day it will happen.
In the future I'm going to talk to a therapist.
Does anyone have any advice for me?I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
Sounds as though you have just explained my entire childhood. I now have kids of my own and a hubby of ten years. He as well had a similar childhood. Opening up when a trust has been broken, or worse never was developed is hard. It is really a step by step process. You have to force yourself to take little chances on people here and there, and when they come through for you that is when you will feel more comfortable to take a bigger chance. But it is not something that will come easy to you or comfortably. It is something you have to willingly, and cautiously chose to do. I have learned that MOST people are good and will be loyal. And a small percentage aren't good and won't be loyal. But those people I quickly toss aside and focus on the healthy relationships I have. I have chosen to live a life opposite of what I was forced to live as a child. I have chosen NOT to let my parents poor parenting cripple me as an adult and I put myself out there so I can live life to the fullest!!!
Best of luck sweetie! You'll get there with a little faith and a lot of persisitence.I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
If you need someone to open to and listen to what you have to say, email me at nealllsn@yahoo.com
You may not see this but you have just opened yourself up more than most folks would. It is a good start. One thing to understand is you are afraid to get hurt and that is why you don't want to open up. If you think of it it is kind of like riding a bike. when you were learning you fell and hurt yourself but after you learned it you still rode the bike because it was fun and could take you places you had never been. The same is true when you start to trust people. It will be fun and it will take you places you have never been.
I had a similar upbringing and strangely my father inherited 300,000. My dad put all the money in her name, she hasnt worked in 26 years and doesnt care if she leaves him with nothing in the end. Silly for my dad to do that.
I have always had a bad relationship with my mother and while I do love my father very much I didnt treat him the way he deserved to be treated because he stayed with her after so many years of abuse. I blamed him for my miserable upbringing. I dont know if he loves her but surely he cant? She told him she was glad his parents died and they were just retarded anyway! and I remember being 12 and the only thing I wanted for christmas was for my parents to divorce.
Unfortunately when you inherit so much money it gets your head and all of a sudden you stop caring about things that mattered so much before. My dad never seemed happy with my mother and the reason he never left her was because he was such a decent guy he didnt want to just throw his wife and the mother of his 3 kids on the street with nothing to her name.
All these problems led me to develop conduct disorder, I was physically, mentally and emotionally abused by my mother over a 16 year period. I become abusive, violent and agressive and I was like that all through my childhood and adulthood. As soon as I moved out, I became a very different person. I decided the best thing to do was try my best not to end up like her when It came time to having a family of my own, which I do have now.
I was scared of having boyfriends and the friends I had were short lived thanks to me letting all my mothers own problems get to me. I couldnt open up to people, I was scared I would look like the bad guy and everyone hated ME even though my mother treated me bad infront of family and friends.
It sounds like your mother is suffering from a mental illness and really needs to seek help and so do you. The more you let this get to you, the more you will end up just as emotionally damaged as your mother...BREAK THE HABIT BEFORE IT BREAKS YOU. As for your dad, if I was him and I loved my children I would leave the mother, I would never let anyone harm my children in anyway and staying for the sake of the kids does more harm than good...probably why you are having trouble communicating with your boyfriend.
How you are in relationships depends on the relationship your parents had. It is why some people never get married or why some are in it just for sex...more likely their parents had a bitter break-up and are scared of going through it themselves. I would suggest councelling for all the family.tvs skin cancer
I've asked him why he doesn't divorce her, and he said he doesn't want to pay her alimony. I can see that he just doesn't know how to get her out of his life. He's told me that he doesn't love her anymore and hasn't in years and years. My dad is such a nice person, it makes me so sad to watch him let her ruin his life.
Because of all of this, I haven't really been able to open up to anyone since I was 15 years old. I opened up to two of the best friends I had at that age, but now I'm just lost. I don't consider my mom to be a mom (I call her my ex-mom) so I have no mother figure. I have no one to tell my problems to, I feel so alone. I've had a boyfriend for a year and I feel so bad for him because I'm not a good communicator.
I clearly need to find a way to learn how to open up to people again and to make some close friends. I won't give up, I know one day it will happen.
In the future I'm going to talk to a therapist.
Does anyone have any advice for me?I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
Sounds as though you have just explained my entire childhood. I now have kids of my own and a hubby of ten years. He as well had a similar childhood. Opening up when a trust has been broken, or worse never was developed is hard. It is really a step by step process. You have to force yourself to take little chances on people here and there, and when they come through for you that is when you will feel more comfortable to take a bigger chance. But it is not something that will come easy to you or comfortably. It is something you have to willingly, and cautiously chose to do. I have learned that MOST people are good and will be loyal. And a small percentage aren't good and won't be loyal. But those people I quickly toss aside and focus on the healthy relationships I have. I have chosen to live a life opposite of what I was forced to live as a child. I have chosen NOT to let my parents poor parenting cripple me as an adult and I put myself out there so I can live life to the fullest!!!
Best of luck sweetie! You'll get there with a little faith and a lot of persisitence.I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and I never learned how to open up to people?
If you need someone to open to and listen to what you have to say, email me at nealllsn@yahoo.com
You may not see this but you have just opened yourself up more than most folks would. It is a good start. One thing to understand is you are afraid to get hurt and that is why you don't want to open up. If you think of it it is kind of like riding a bike. when you were learning you fell and hurt yourself but after you learned it you still rode the bike because it was fun and could take you places you had never been. The same is true when you start to trust people. It will be fun and it will take you places you have never been.
I had a similar upbringing and strangely my father inherited 300,000. My dad put all the money in her name, she hasnt worked in 26 years and doesnt care if she leaves him with nothing in the end. Silly for my dad to do that.
I have always had a bad relationship with my mother and while I do love my father very much I didnt treat him the way he deserved to be treated because he stayed with her after so many years of abuse. I blamed him for my miserable upbringing. I dont know if he loves her but surely he cant? She told him she was glad his parents died and they were just retarded anyway! and I remember being 12 and the only thing I wanted for christmas was for my parents to divorce.
Unfortunately when you inherit so much money it gets your head and all of a sudden you stop caring about things that mattered so much before. My dad never seemed happy with my mother and the reason he never left her was because he was such a decent guy he didnt want to just throw his wife and the mother of his 3 kids on the street with nothing to her name.
All these problems led me to develop conduct disorder, I was physically, mentally and emotionally abused by my mother over a 16 year period. I become abusive, violent and agressive and I was like that all through my childhood and adulthood. As soon as I moved out, I became a very different person. I decided the best thing to do was try my best not to end up like her when It came time to having a family of my own, which I do have now.
I was scared of having boyfriends and the friends I had were short lived thanks to me letting all my mothers own problems get to me. I couldnt open up to people, I was scared I would look like the bad guy and everyone hated ME even though my mother treated me bad infront of family and friends.
It sounds like your mother is suffering from a mental illness and really needs to seek help and so do you. The more you let this get to you, the more you will end up just as emotionally damaged as your mother...BREAK THE HABIT BEFORE IT BREAKS YOU. As for your dad, if I was him and I loved my children I would leave the mother, I would never let anyone harm my children in anyway and staying for the sake of the kids does more harm than good...probably why you are having trouble communicating with your boyfriend.
How you are in relationships depends on the relationship your parents had. It is why some people never get married or why some are in it just for sex...more likely their parents had a bitter break-up and are scared of going through it themselves. I would suggest councelling for all the family.
How to tell my mom I'm goin to live with someone I met on myspace?
I really like this guy and i know he's real and i know he's not a serial killer or anything so if u wanna say that then u might as well not answer. Anyways, me and him are both married but seperated and have NO intenetions on going back to our hubby and wife. We live 3 hours from each other and he asked me if i would like to live with him in about a month and see if we really want to be together. Right now, I'm living with my Mom and she knows im talking to him and said im playing a dangerous game and she doesnt think its right to even talk to him because i am married, so how am i supposed to tell her all of a sudden that hes coming to pick me up and im going to live with him? I'm almost 19 years old so she can't stop me but im just wondering how to tell her and also is this a good idea?How to tell my mom I'm goin to live with someone I met on myspace?
wow...your stupid.How to tell my mom I'm goin to live with someone I met on myspace?
Leave a note that says,';Hey Ma, get the rape kit ready. I'll be back in a few days, you know the drill. Cya.';
I would file for divorce to show her its official then tell her that you want to go live with your friend and see if it turns into more...
By not doing it. Getting to know a person is not moving in with them. Also you are eighteen so you do not have to tell your mother anything, you can just leave.
You're 19 and already separated !!??
Living with someone you hardly know is a sure way to hate them, not love them.
';Dear Mom,
I'm an internet whore and I've found a man that will have me.
Love always,
Your myspace slut daughter,
Insert Name Here.';
Wow Married At 18? Thats Pretty Interesting, BUT I Would Just Say ';MOM IM MOVING IN WITH HIM'; Easy As That Shes Not Going To Like It But It Is What It Is.
First, I'd explain to your mother what FaceBook is.
Second, I don't want to be overprotective, but the first time you meet this guy, you should bring a friend. You never know. I'm sure he's fine, but... you don't want to end up on Dateline.
I think moving in with him so soon is a little drastic...maybe hang out in person for a while first. But you can do whatever you want, so I guess the best way to tell your mom would be to say you are an adult and you can do what you want. I always tell people they can lecture me AFTER I make a mistake instead of stopping me in the first place.
wow...your stupid.How to tell my mom I'm goin to live with someone I met on myspace?
Leave a note that says,';Hey Ma, get the rape kit ready. I'll be back in a few days, you know the drill. Cya.';
I would file for divorce to show her its official then tell her that you want to go live with your friend and see if it turns into more...
By not doing it. Getting to know a person is not moving in with them. Also you are eighteen so you do not have to tell your mother anything, you can just leave.
You're 19 and already separated !!??
Living with someone you hardly know is a sure way to hate them, not love them.
';Dear Mom,
I'm an internet whore and I've found a man that will have me.
Love always,
Your myspace slut daughter,
Insert Name Here.';
Wow Married At 18? Thats Pretty Interesting, BUT I Would Just Say ';MOM IM MOVING IN WITH HIM'; Easy As That Shes Not Going To Like It But It Is What It Is.
First, I'd explain to your mother what FaceBook is.
Second, I don't want to be overprotective, but the first time you meet this guy, you should bring a friend. You never know. I'm sure he's fine, but... you don't want to end up on Dateline.
I think moving in with him so soon is a little drastic...maybe hang out in person for a while first. But you can do whatever you want, so I guess the best way to tell your mom would be to say you are an adult and you can do what you want. I always tell people they can lecture me AFTER I make a mistake instead of stopping me in the first place.
How much do i get paid to be on the radio?
I am a rapper. I have a connection with this lady who has an am radio station. She said if i send her my music and it has a copywrite and paper work and stuff, that I will be paid for it. Im just wondering how much they will pay, like the price range. Dnt tell me that I wnt get paid and Im the one who has to pay them, no i dont, the woman told me herself. Thanks.How much do i get paid to be on the radio?
i used to work in radio and they had to pay ascap and bmi $3000/mo to play any music which was copyrighted. this money was arbitrarily divided by ratings and play time which we had to supply every so often. if you figure most songs hover around 3 mins, and thus about 10-15 songs per hour allowing for other programming like commercials and news, psa, etc, an average of 4.3 weeks per mo...
i'd guess no more than $10/mo.How much do i get paid to be on the radio?
I don't care what she told you, you won't see any money. Don't sign anything unless you fully understand it.
i used to work in radio and they had to pay ascap and bmi $3000/mo to play any music which was copyrighted. this money was arbitrarily divided by ratings and play time which we had to supply every so often. if you figure most songs hover around 3 mins, and thus about 10-15 songs per hour allowing for other programming like commercials and news, psa, etc, an average of 4.3 weeks per mo...
i'd guess no more than $10/mo.How much do i get paid to be on the radio?
I don't care what she told you, you won't see any money. Don't sign anything unless you fully understand it.
How to approach a girl in school?
I am a simple soft more (grade 10) and i am really attracted to this one girl that sits to my right all the way down by the end of the class room. i would really like to ask her out, but i feel i am out of her league and i am scared to say anything because of other complications. im not the best looker, but i can really stick out if i want to be my self. ive caught eye contact with her about 3 or 4 times, but im worried she thinks i am staring at her. and suggestions on how to make her mine? should i back away if i feel there is to much competition? she is always hanging out with guys better looking then me, and probably smarter too... i know a few things about her, but not much. i think i am hopeless. any1 have ANY advice?How to approach a girl in school?
if she is too shallow, she doesnt notice you, and goes for the ';popular kids'; she probably isnt right for a nice guy. But you should try to be her friend, dont worry if u get rejected its not the end of the world happens to everyone.
if she is too shallow, she doesnt notice you, and goes for the ';popular kids'; she probably isnt right for a nice guy. But you should try to be her friend, dont worry if u get rejected its not the end of the world happens to everyone.
How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
My best friend lives in Norway and next summer im going to visit her:D
And I want to impress her by learning to speak a little Norwegian!!!
any suggestions??!?!
whats the best way to go about doing this???
your help will be greatly appreciated thank you!:)How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
pick a dialect and get a teacher.. there麓s no standard spoken Norwegian, you might want to study Oslo dialect.How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
WAatch DVDs of movies dubbed in Norwegian.
rosetta stone
And I want to impress her by learning to speak a little Norwegian!!!
any suggestions??!?!
whats the best way to go about doing this???
your help will be greatly appreciated thank you!:)How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
pick a dialect and get a teacher.. there麓s no standard spoken Norwegian, you might want to study Oslo dialect.How can I learn to speak Norwegian? FAST!?
WAatch DVDs of movies dubbed in Norwegian.
rosetta stone
How do I approach her?
I have a friend who likes to wear boy jeans. However, they seem to fall off her hips alot and reveal her butt crack. Its embarrassing to me to be with her with her crack showing. I tell her constantly to pull her pants up, but it happens so much that she is getting upset with me for always reminding her to do it.
What should I do? Ignore it or persist in bringing it up since it bugs me.How do I approach her?
bring it up. **** i bet if she relized that her *** was showing she probably would wear a belt.How do I approach her?
Ignore her I guess that how she wants to dress
I would tell her about it more because you don't want her walking around embarrassing herself! That's what good friends do! :)
Well since you mention it so much im pretty sure she knows by now that her crack shows all the time. If shes a good friend like a best friend dont think you should be imbarrased to walk with her cause its not like its your crack showing its hers. I love my best friend for who she is not what she wears its her body
buy her some new pants for a gift
What should I do? Ignore it or persist in bringing it up since it bugs me.How do I approach her?
bring it up. **** i bet if she relized that her *** was showing she probably would wear a belt.How do I approach her?
Ignore her I guess that how she wants to dress
I would tell her about it more because you don't want her walking around embarrassing herself! That's what good friends do! :)
Well since you mention it so much im pretty sure she knows by now that her crack shows all the time. If shes a good friend like a best friend dont think you should be imbarrased to walk with her cause its not like its your crack showing its hers. I love my best friend for who she is not what she wears its her body
buy her some new pants for a gift
How can I stop being so nervous because I am about to go meet my fiance in vietnam ?
I mean I am really excited but at the same time really nervous, I know I'm going this July 2010 to meet her but I'm nervous right now. How can I stop being so nervous ? She is my wife and she is arranged by my mother, I've talked with her on the phone but I am sweating right now. Can anyone please help me out ? I'd really appreciate all your advices, thanks.How can I stop being so nervous because I am about to go meet my fiance in vietnam ?
You probably are just going to get deported at the border. Or her family will lock you in a bunker to make certain you don't leave.
Dude GET A GRIP. You ask every single day in ETIQUETTE about your Vietnamese fiance, and it's not an etiquette question. Etiquette = manners it's not relationship advice.How can I stop being so nervous because I am about to go meet my fiance in vietnam ?
Since you agreed to this arranged marriage I am sure she is also nervous.
Just relax she will be glad to meet you and so will you
Have you 2 seen one another on a cam ?
Aw don't sweat...tvs skin cancer
You probably are just going to get deported at the border. Or her family will lock you in a bunker to make certain you don't leave.
Dude GET A GRIP. You ask every single day in ETIQUETTE about your Vietnamese fiance, and it's not an etiquette question. Etiquette = manners it's not relationship advice.How can I stop being so nervous because I am about to go meet my fiance in vietnam ?
Since you agreed to this arranged marriage I am sure she is also nervous.
Just relax she will be glad to meet you and so will you
Have you 2 seen one another on a cam ?
Aw don't sweat...
How to change my turtles swimming water without shocking her?
My dad said i'll shock the turtle if i change her water, we just got her like 12 hours ago, but her water is DISGUSTING! Should/How i change it?How to change my turtles swimming water without shocking her?
Just make sure that the new water is at about the same temperature as the old. You might want to do partial water changes once you have the water cleaner. That way temperature is not as much of a factor.How to change my turtles swimming water without shocking her?
this is a great time for her to go outside and get sun. while being watched...
then cl;ean the tank and place her back when it is ready are you using a filter? this always helps.
reach into the tank with a bowl. submerge the bowl under the water and get the bowl under the turtle. lift the bowl out and the turtle will be in it. dump the water and fill it half way back up. compare the temp between the bowl with the turtle and the tank. match the two temps then pick the turtle up out of the bowl and place in the tank. fresh water same temp no shock.
Your dad is, well, being a dad LOL She'll be fine. All you have to do is take her and anything else in the tank out. Put her in temporary container of some sort ( a bowl, a dish or whatever. Just so she cant escape on you). Dump the old water out of the tank. Fill it with fresh water as it is. Add a small amount of DAWN dishwashing detergent (This is the mildest detergent out there) and wash it thoroughly. Use the same soapy water to wash her things too. Rinse everything thoroughly. Put all of her things back in place first and when the tank looks the way you want it, add lukewarm water to the same level the old dirty water was and put your little girl back in her home. That's it. No biggie. You're going to have to change her tank like this no less than once a week. Twice wouldnt hurt. Hope this helps.
Just make sure that the new water is at about the same temperature as the old. You might want to do partial water changes once you have the water cleaner. That way temperature is not as much of a factor.How to change my turtles swimming water without shocking her?
this is a great time for her to go outside and get sun. while being watched...
then cl;ean the tank and place her back when it is ready are you using a filter? this always helps.
reach into the tank with a bowl. submerge the bowl under the water and get the bowl under the turtle. lift the bowl out and the turtle will be in it. dump the water and fill it half way back up. compare the temp between the bowl with the turtle and the tank. match the two temps then pick the turtle up out of the bowl and place in the tank. fresh water same temp no shock.
Your dad is, well, being a dad LOL She'll be fine. All you have to do is take her and anything else in the tank out. Put her in temporary container of some sort ( a bowl, a dish or whatever. Just so she cant escape on you). Dump the old water out of the tank. Fill it with fresh water as it is. Add a small amount of DAWN dishwashing detergent (This is the mildest detergent out there) and wash it thoroughly. Use the same soapy water to wash her things too. Rinse everything thoroughly. Put all of her things back in place first and when the tank looks the way you want it, add lukewarm water to the same level the old dirty water was and put your little girl back in her home. That's it. No biggie. You're going to have to change her tank like this no less than once a week. Twice wouldnt hurt. Hope this helps.
I lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
My Friend did something that was not the smartest and he mom wants her to move out of the house and to go live with one of her aunts. he mom disowned her and wants nothing to do with her. Me and some of my friends are almost in a deep depression and we are very sad. We have no way to talk or see her anymore. To me it feels like she died.
i also have trouble with depression and i just got better but know I鈥檓 afraid that i will go back into it and i don鈥檛 want to.
i cant go talk to my school counselor because she is the one how betrayed my friend that has be forest to move out. I have no where to go and I鈥檓 so lost and sad, what can i do?
i cant go talk to my school counselor because she is the one how betrayed my friend that has be forest to move out. I have no ware to go and I鈥檓 so lost and sad, what can i do?I lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
Try writing everything down in a journal/diaryI lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
go add her on facebook.
I would send letters.
I would talk to her mother about how to contact her. If an argument break out, don't raise your voice whatsoever. That way, she'll feel like an idiot for yelling and BINGO you win an argument.
i also have trouble with depression and i just got better but know I鈥檓 afraid that i will go back into it and i don鈥檛 want to.
i cant go talk to my school counselor because she is the one how betrayed my friend that has be forest to move out. I have no where to go and I鈥檓 so lost and sad, what can i do?
i cant go talk to my school counselor because she is the one how betrayed my friend that has be forest to move out. I have no ware to go and I鈥檓 so lost and sad, what can i do?I lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
Try writing everything down in a journal/diaryI lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
go add her on facebook.
I would send letters.
I would talk to her mother about how to contact her. If an argument break out, don't raise your voice whatsoever. That way, she'll feel like an idiot for yelling and BINGO you win an argument.
How do you belly dance?
I want to know how to move my hips, any hints/ tricks or videos? I saw one on you tube of a girl doing rude boy and it was pretty good : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKeiWIXJ3鈥?/a> How can I do it similar to her?How do you belly dance?
That's not really belly dancing...belly dancing is feminine and smooth not all over the place and crazy lol. You can just youtube online belly dance lessons or hip rolls, undulations, rib circles, etc. I took classes but before that, I had the basic moves just watching videos. I'll try and find this one woman that was helpful.
http://www.youtube.com/user/cinnaquHow do you belly dance?
I agree that is not bellydancing - but not all bellydancing is smooth and self consciously feminine.
Tribal fusion fuses bellydance with other dance forms such as industrial, hip hop, flamenco, Indian etc. It is always, if done correctly, very controlled and very muscular.
Sashi - gothic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGgmdXQbv鈥?/a>
Anasma - hip hop fusion
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAeINZD5K鈥?/a>
and one of my favourites - Unmata
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LnpiZJEj鈥?/a>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMosfgpIF鈥?/a>
ATS - (American Tribal Style)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BheWoMmd5鈥?/a>
East Coast Tribal
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8MYUtRUw鈥?/a>
Kami
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBHnR9Ny5鈥?/a>
If you really want to learn, the best way to do so is to take classes. Look for tribal fusion or ATS classes. There are details to the movements that you'll never get from videos. But if there are no tribal classes near you, take normal bellydance classes, and top up with DVDs and workshops. The techniques can be quite different but some of the skills are transferable.
If you just want to learn bits - the most important advice is to use your internal muscles to move your body around. For example to move your hips, get balanced, legs slightly bent, feet hip socket width apart or closer, tail bone tucked in - bounce a bit, and then imagine your body is hanging from your ribcage and that your legs are only there to give support. Then move your hips around using your stomach muscles - letting your legs flex underneath but the legs do not drive the movement.
To move your arms, use the muscles under your shoulder blades, keeping your shoulders down.
That's not really belly dancing...belly dancing is feminine and smooth not all over the place and crazy lol. You can just youtube online belly dance lessons or hip rolls, undulations, rib circles, etc. I took classes but before that, I had the basic moves just watching videos. I'll try and find this one woman that was helpful.
http://www.youtube.com/user/cinnaquHow do you belly dance?
I agree that is not bellydancing - but not all bellydancing is smooth and self consciously feminine.
Tribal fusion fuses bellydance with other dance forms such as industrial, hip hop, flamenco, Indian etc. It is always, if done correctly, very controlled and very muscular.
Sashi - gothic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGgmdXQbv鈥?/a>
Anasma - hip hop fusion
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAeINZD5K鈥?/a>
and one of my favourites - Unmata
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LnpiZJEj鈥?/a>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMosfgpIF鈥?/a>
ATS - (American Tribal Style)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BheWoMmd5鈥?/a>
East Coast Tribal
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8MYUtRUw鈥?/a>
Kami
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBHnR9Ny5鈥?/a>
If you really want to learn, the best way to do so is to take classes. Look for tribal fusion or ATS classes. There are details to the movements that you'll never get from videos. But if there are no tribal classes near you, take normal bellydance classes, and top up with DVDs and workshops. The techniques can be quite different but some of the skills are transferable.
If you just want to learn bits - the most important advice is to use your internal muscles to move your body around. For example to move your hips, get balanced, legs slightly bent, feet hip socket width apart or closer, tail bone tucked in - bounce a bit, and then imagine your body is hanging from your ribcage and that your legs are only there to give support. Then move your hips around using your stomach muscles - letting your legs flex underneath but the legs do not drive the movement.
To move your arms, use the muscles under your shoulder blades, keeping your shoulders down.
How can I stop being so nervous because I am about to go meet my fiance in vietnam ?
I mean I am really excited but at the same time really nervous, I know I'm going this July 2010 to meet her but I'm nervous right now. How can I stop being so nervous ? She is my wife and she is arranged by my mother, I've talked with her on the phone but I am sweating right now. Can anyone please help me out ? I'd really appreciate all your advices, thanks.How can I stop being so nervous because I am about to go meet my fiance in vietnam ?
You are naturally bound to be somewhat nervous but think about what a great future you are going to have and how special she must be since your Mother selected her just for you. You've already talked to her on the phone so you ';somewhat know'; her and this is the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. Remember to be yourself and kind and cordial and relax. Do NOT put on airs or pretend to be someone you are not but just be yourself. Everything will work out for itself. Good luck.
Peace, Love %26amp; Happiness
You are naturally bound to be somewhat nervous but think about what a great future you are going to have and how special she must be since your Mother selected her just for you. You've already talked to her on the phone so you ';somewhat know'; her and this is the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. Remember to be yourself and kind and cordial and relax. Do NOT put on airs or pretend to be someone you are not but just be yourself. Everything will work out for itself. Good luck.
Peace, Love %26amp; Happiness
How to change my turtles swimming water without shocking her?
My dad said i'll shock the turtle if i change her water, we just got her like 12 hours ago, but her water is DISGUSTING! Should/How i change it?How to change my turtles swimming water without shocking her?
this is a great time for her to go outside and get sun. while being watched...
then cl;ean the tank and place her back when it is ready are you using a filter? this always helps.How to change my turtles swimming water without shocking her?
reach into the tank with a bowl. submerge the bowl under the water and get the bowl under the turtle. lift the bowl out and the turtle will be in it. dump the water and fill it half way back up. compare the temp between the bowl with the turtle and the tank. match the two temps then pick the turtle up out of the bowl and place in the tank. fresh water same temp no shock.
Your dad is, well, being a dad LOL She'll be fine. All you have to do is take her and anything else in the tank out. Put her in temporary container of some sort ( a bowl, a dish or whatever. Just so she cant escape on you). Dump the old water out of the tank. Fill it with fresh water as it is. Add a small amount of DAWN dishwashing detergent (This is the mildest detergent out there) and wash it thoroughly. Use the same soapy water to wash her things too. Rinse everything thoroughly. Put all of her things back in place first and when the tank looks the way you want it, add lukewarm water to the same level the old dirty water was and put your little girl back in her home. That's it. No biggie. You're going to have to change her tank like this no less than once a week. Twice wouldnt hurt. Hope this helps.
Just make sure that the new water is at about the same temperature as the old. You might want to do partial water changes once you have the water cleaner. That way temperature is not as much of a factor.tvs skin cancer
this is a great time for her to go outside and get sun. while being watched...
then cl;ean the tank and place her back when it is ready are you using a filter? this always helps.How to change my turtles swimming water without shocking her?
reach into the tank with a bowl. submerge the bowl under the water and get the bowl under the turtle. lift the bowl out and the turtle will be in it. dump the water and fill it half way back up. compare the temp between the bowl with the turtle and the tank. match the two temps then pick the turtle up out of the bowl and place in the tank. fresh water same temp no shock.
Your dad is, well, being a dad LOL She'll be fine. All you have to do is take her and anything else in the tank out. Put her in temporary container of some sort ( a bowl, a dish or whatever. Just so she cant escape on you). Dump the old water out of the tank. Fill it with fresh water as it is. Add a small amount of DAWN dishwashing detergent (This is the mildest detergent out there) and wash it thoroughly. Use the same soapy water to wash her things too. Rinse everything thoroughly. Put all of her things back in place first and when the tank looks the way you want it, add lukewarm water to the same level the old dirty water was and put your little girl back in her home. That's it. No biggie. You're going to have to change her tank like this no less than once a week. Twice wouldnt hurt. Hope this helps.
Just make sure that the new water is at about the same temperature as the old. You might want to do partial water changes once you have the water cleaner. That way temperature is not as much of a factor.
I lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
My Friend did something that was not the smartest and he mom wants her to move out of the house and to go live with one of her aunts. he mom disowned her and wants nothing to do with her. Me and some of my friends are almost in a deep depression and we are very sad. We have no way to talk or see her anymore. To me it feels like she died.
i also have trouble with depression and i just got better but know I鈥檓 afraid that i will go back into it and i don鈥檛 want to.
i cant go talk to my school counselor because she is the one how betrayed my friend that has be forest to move out. I have no where to go and I鈥檓 so lost and sad, what can i do?
i cant go talk to my school counselor because she is the one how betrayed my friend that has be forest to move out. I have no ware to go and I鈥檓 so lost and sad, what can i do?I lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
I would send letters.
I would talk to her mother about how to contact her. If an argument break out, don't raise your voice whatsoever. That way, she'll feel like an idiot for yelling and BINGO you win an argument.I lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
Try writing everything down in a journal/diary
go add her on facebook.
i also have trouble with depression and i just got better but know I鈥檓 afraid that i will go back into it and i don鈥檛 want to.
i cant go talk to my school counselor because she is the one how betrayed my friend that has be forest to move out. I have no where to go and I鈥檓 so lost and sad, what can i do?
i cant go talk to my school counselor because she is the one how betrayed my friend that has be forest to move out. I have no ware to go and I鈥檓 so lost and sad, what can i do?I lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
I would send letters.
I would talk to her mother about how to contact her. If an argument break out, don't raise your voice whatsoever. That way, she'll feel like an idiot for yelling and BINGO you win an argument.I lost on of my best friend, not from her dying, but because she has to move, how can i be not so sad?
Try writing everything down in a journal/diary
go add her on facebook.
How do you belly dance?
I want to know how to move my hips, any hints/ tricks or videos? I saw one on you tube of a girl doing rude boy and it was pretty good : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKeiWIXJ3鈥?/a> How can I do it similar to her?How do you belly dance?
That's not really belly dancing...belly dancing is feminine and smooth not all over the place and crazy lol. You can just youtube online belly dance lessons or hip rolls, undulations, rib circles, etc. I took classes but before that, I had the basic moves just watching videos. I'll try and find this one woman that was helpful.
http://www.youtube.com/user/cinnaquHow do you belly dance?
I agree that is not bellydancing - but not all bellydancing is smooth and self consciously feminine.
Tribal fusion fuses bellydance with other dance forms such as industrial, hip hop, flamenco, Indian etc. It is always, if done correctly, very controlled and very muscular.
Sashi - gothic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGgmdXQbv鈥?/a>
Anasma - hip hop fusion
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAeINZD5K鈥?/a>
and one of my favourites - Unmata
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LnpiZJEj鈥?/a>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMosfgpIF鈥?/a>
ATS - (American Tribal Style)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BheWoMmd5鈥?/a>
East Coast Tribal
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8MYUtRUw鈥?/a>
Kami
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBHnR9Ny5鈥?/a>
If you really want to learn, the best way to do so is to take classes. Look for tribal fusion or ATS classes. There are details to the movements that you'll never get from videos. But if there are no tribal classes near you, take normal bellydance classes, and top up with DVDs and workshops. The techniques can be quite different but some of the skills are transferable.
If you just want to learn bits - the most important advice is to use your internal muscles to move your body around. For example to move your hips, get balanced, legs slightly bent, feet hip socket width apart or closer, tail bone tucked in - bounce a bit, and then imagine your body is hanging from your ribcage and that your legs are only there to give support. Then move your hips around using your stomach muscles - letting your legs flex underneath but the legs do not drive the movement.
To move your arms, use the muscles under your shoulder blades, keeping your shoulders down.
That's not really belly dancing...belly dancing is feminine and smooth not all over the place and crazy lol. You can just youtube online belly dance lessons or hip rolls, undulations, rib circles, etc. I took classes but before that, I had the basic moves just watching videos. I'll try and find this one woman that was helpful.
http://www.youtube.com/user/cinnaquHow do you belly dance?
I agree that is not bellydancing - but not all bellydancing is smooth and self consciously feminine.
Tribal fusion fuses bellydance with other dance forms such as industrial, hip hop, flamenco, Indian etc. It is always, if done correctly, very controlled and very muscular.
Sashi - gothic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGgmdXQbv鈥?/a>
Anasma - hip hop fusion
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAeINZD5K鈥?/a>
and one of my favourites - Unmata
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LnpiZJEj鈥?/a>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMosfgpIF鈥?/a>
ATS - (American Tribal Style)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BheWoMmd5鈥?/a>
East Coast Tribal
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8MYUtRUw鈥?/a>
Kami
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBHnR9Ny5鈥?/a>
If you really want to learn, the best way to do so is to take classes. Look for tribal fusion or ATS classes. There are details to the movements that you'll never get from videos. But if there are no tribal classes near you, take normal bellydance classes, and top up with DVDs and workshops. The techniques can be quite different but some of the skills are transferable.
If you just want to learn bits - the most important advice is to use your internal muscles to move your body around. For example to move your hips, get balanced, legs slightly bent, feet hip socket width apart or closer, tail bone tucked in - bounce a bit, and then imagine your body is hanging from your ribcage and that your legs are only there to give support. Then move your hips around using your stomach muscles - letting your legs flex underneath but the legs do not drive the movement.
To move your arms, use the muscles under your shoulder blades, keeping your shoulders down.
Why is it easy to talk to some girls and not others?
Most of my ';social time'; is spent in pubs and bars (no im not an alcoholic im mostly the designated driver) and I've noticed that its really easy to talk to the girls at the bars buy them drinks get their number etc. But when this one friend of mine lets call her ';Jess'; gets talking to me I feel REALLY awkward Im totally at a loss of what to say to her how to act around her, and most of the time I end up saying something that everyone else reads as a seriously cheesy and poorly thought out chat up line and when I try to correct myself I make it even worse. When shes gone Im totally fine but the second she comes back I become this blithering idiot my friends even like to invite Jess along because they like to make fun of me.
What the heck is up here cause its really awkward? sometimes Im talking to a girl at the bar or something and Jess comes up to talk as well and the 1st girl I was talking to suddenly thinks im a lunatic or something and wanders off.
Whats the deal guys?Why is it easy to talk to some girls and not others?
because all girls are differentg homie!...DB!Why is it easy to talk to some girls and not others?
Attraction - at some level you like her and possibly she likes you.
Next time - try taking a deep breathe and just ask her about her day - her hobbies and listen - lot's of listening. Firstly - she'll see you are interested and that you want to know about her. Secondly - it gives you breathing space to think about what to say.
Then the next time you see her - try to recall some of the things she said last time - like - if you said she like a swimming - ask her how it's going.
Sounds like a silly thing to do - but you'd be building a rapport with her. Some girls are just different.
Don't give up - it's cute you get tongue tied around - I'm sure she's flattered.
Remember - Fortune favors the brave. Feel the fear and do it anyway.
Good luck
Rx
What the heck is up here cause its really awkward? sometimes Im talking to a girl at the bar or something and Jess comes up to talk as well and the 1st girl I was talking to suddenly thinks im a lunatic or something and wanders off.
Whats the deal guys?Why is it easy to talk to some girls and not others?
because all girls are differentg homie!...DB!Why is it easy to talk to some girls and not others?
Attraction - at some level you like her and possibly she likes you.
Next time - try taking a deep breathe and just ask her about her day - her hobbies and listen - lot's of listening. Firstly - she'll see you are interested and that you want to know about her. Secondly - it gives you breathing space to think about what to say.
Then the next time you see her - try to recall some of the things she said last time - like - if you said she like a swimming - ask her how it's going.
Sounds like a silly thing to do - but you'd be building a rapport with her. Some girls are just different.
Don't give up - it's cute you get tongue tied around - I'm sure she's flattered.
Remember - Fortune favors the brave. Feel the fear and do it anyway.
Good luck
Rx
How do I tell my friend that she is acting stupid?
My best friend is really nice, but sometimes acts dorky. I don't like her when she's dorky, so how do I tell her to stop without hurting her feelings?How do I tell my friend that she is acting stupid?
My best friend is the same way. But, the way I see it, if you're her best friend then you shouldn't care how she acts . . . just learn to have fun and not care what other people think. Life is much better that way.How do I tell my friend that she is acting stupid?
You should love your friend for who she is, not how she acts. Maybe this is her personality. You don't want to tell your friend to alter herself just to fit your satisfaction. What if she did this to you? Be careful, your insensitivity may lose you a good friend.
Best of Luck
go up to her face and say ''YOUR BEING STUPID!! STOP BEING STUPID UR EMBRASSING ME!!'' AND SCREAM WHILE TELLING HER THIS. or u cud jus tell her nicely can you stop being dorky well i get it, its ur nature well thts not how i want it to be soo stop being dorky!!! OR JUS GET A BETTER FRIEND
you probably cant you have to except her the way she is sorry
tell her that she is acting stupid. easy.
My best friend is the same way. But, the way I see it, if you're her best friend then you shouldn't care how she acts . . . just learn to have fun and not care what other people think. Life is much better that way.How do I tell my friend that she is acting stupid?
You should love your friend for who she is, not how she acts. Maybe this is her personality. You don't want to tell your friend to alter herself just to fit your satisfaction. What if she did this to you? Be careful, your insensitivity may lose you a good friend.
Best of Luck
go up to her face and say ''YOUR BEING STUPID!! STOP BEING STUPID UR EMBRASSING ME!!'' AND SCREAM WHILE TELLING HER THIS. or u cud jus tell her nicely can you stop being dorky well i get it, its ur nature well thts not how i want it to be soo stop being dorky!!! OR JUS GET A BETTER FRIEND
you probably cant you have to except her the way she is sorry
tell her that she is acting stupid. easy.
Guys 10 points . How do you act around a random girl you're introduced to and would like to get to know?
vs. someone you're not? How do you act when you first meet her and look at her?
Do your eyes lock with hers? Do your eyes light up when you look at her? Do you try to get conversation started? How do you act differently when interested?Guys 10 points . How do you act around a random girl you're introduced to and would like to get to know?
Well guys act differently. But we're really nervous sometimes and shy. When we first look at them, we don't know what to say because usually we might say something stupid around some new and they are really beautiful. Our eyes may sometimes lock with them but most of the time we will look away. We try hard sometimes to get a conversation started so we usually get really nervous and say hi and try to say something that will try to start a conversation. We act a lot different, we will usually act way different, we could act stupid around our friends but when we're introduced to a girl, we will try to impress them sometimes but acting serious and cool most of the time.Guys 10 points . How do you act around a random girl you're introduced to and would like to get to know?
Hi there! :)
Okay, lets say I have a girl friend I wouldn't bother checking her out or anything, the least a guy would probably do is become friends with her and that's all.
If I didn't have a girl friend, then I would see what kind of personality she has.
In the beginning, I wouldn't talk to her much and see what she has to say and if her personality is good and she's good looking then I would want the conversation to flow and continue talking with her. I would definitely look at her and check her out.
I would also ask for her MySpace, AIM, phone number, etc.
Hope this was the answer you were looking for! :)
7 questions will be answered in order:
1. I act polite and say only basic answers to questions, not elaborating.
2. I just act as though ';yea yea here's another person that exists.';
3. I will look away, back up to the corner or a wall, and drum my fingers, or combinations of the 3.
4. This has happened on occasion, very rarely.
5. I really don't know because I have never seen them.
6. No
7. I believe this question has been sufficiently answered already.
You need to act like you are not desperate to meet her. Act all laid back, and know what you are doing. No sense just sitting there and staring, thinking what could have been, so make sure you jump on the opportunity, but remember, DO NOT ACT LIKE YOU NEED HER!!!!!!!
when i see someone I like, I immediately smile, whether I can control it or not, and say hi.if i'm in a group, whenever I tell a joke I look at that person first. just think of when you see a guy you like - how do you act? the two sexes aren't that different, we're all people.
when u aer inrerested, you naturally want to talk to her. make eye contact, look for her in the place and try to find her and make conversation.when you are not interested, you dont make eye contacy and you dont look around trying to find her. simple
Coming from a girl`s preference, you should start up a conversation to get to know her. Also you need to keep her attention going on with your personality.
Just be yourself...start a conversation about yourself to start and then show your interest in her by asking her questions about herself.
Well he would act really interested,look at your eyes real intent,and seem fasinated at whatever you say,but not over exagerated!
you get involved. Ask questions while you're getting introduced like where she is from or something.
looking at the queries you have.. your behavior seems to be as though you are already gliding her side.. such that she can easily notice you - expressing your likes for her.
you act genuinely interested -
first thing you do is say hi introduce yourself ask her name then make sure she doesn't get in trouble if she does take his blame be as nice as possible do even more if you like her
make it comfortable trying not be be awkward... MYSELF... dont try to be cool
u act like you have already been freinds for a while like u already know her go with the flow make her laugh
This shouldn't be hard, show her your penis.
I would be nervous, ';First impression says all....';
I would show her a lot of money to impress her
nervous and shy and kind of quiet
Do your eyes lock with hers? Do your eyes light up when you look at her? Do you try to get conversation started? How do you act differently when interested?Guys 10 points . How do you act around a random girl you're introduced to and would like to get to know?
Well guys act differently. But we're really nervous sometimes and shy. When we first look at them, we don't know what to say because usually we might say something stupid around some new and they are really beautiful. Our eyes may sometimes lock with them but most of the time we will look away. We try hard sometimes to get a conversation started so we usually get really nervous and say hi and try to say something that will try to start a conversation. We act a lot different, we will usually act way different, we could act stupid around our friends but when we're introduced to a girl, we will try to impress them sometimes but acting serious and cool most of the time.Guys 10 points . How do you act around a random girl you're introduced to and would like to get to know?
Hi there! :)
Okay, lets say I have a girl friend I wouldn't bother checking her out or anything, the least a guy would probably do is become friends with her and that's all.
If I didn't have a girl friend, then I would see what kind of personality she has.
In the beginning, I wouldn't talk to her much and see what she has to say and if her personality is good and she's good looking then I would want the conversation to flow and continue talking with her. I would definitely look at her and check her out.
I would also ask for her MySpace, AIM, phone number, etc.
Hope this was the answer you were looking for! :)
7 questions will be answered in order:
1. I act polite and say only basic answers to questions, not elaborating.
2. I just act as though ';yea yea here's another person that exists.';
3. I will look away, back up to the corner or a wall, and drum my fingers, or combinations of the 3.
4. This has happened on occasion, very rarely.
5. I really don't know because I have never seen them.
6. No
7. I believe this question has been sufficiently answered already.
You need to act like you are not desperate to meet her. Act all laid back, and know what you are doing. No sense just sitting there and staring, thinking what could have been, so make sure you jump on the opportunity, but remember, DO NOT ACT LIKE YOU NEED HER!!!!!!!
when i see someone I like, I immediately smile, whether I can control it or not, and say hi.if i'm in a group, whenever I tell a joke I look at that person first. just think of when you see a guy you like - how do you act? the two sexes aren't that different, we're all people.
when u aer inrerested, you naturally want to talk to her. make eye contact, look for her in the place and try to find her and make conversation.when you are not interested, you dont make eye contacy and you dont look around trying to find her. simple
Coming from a girl`s preference, you should start up a conversation to get to know her. Also you need to keep her attention going on with your personality.
Just be yourself...start a conversation about yourself to start and then show your interest in her by asking her questions about herself.
Well he would act really interested,look at your eyes real intent,and seem fasinated at whatever you say,but not over exagerated!
you get involved. Ask questions while you're getting introduced like where she is from or something.
looking at the queries you have.. your behavior seems to be as though you are already gliding her side.. such that she can easily notice you - expressing your likes for her.
you act genuinely interested -
first thing you do is say hi introduce yourself ask her name then make sure she doesn't get in trouble if she does take his blame be as nice as possible do even more if you like her
make it comfortable trying not be be awkward... MYSELF... dont try to be cool
u act like you have already been freinds for a while like u already know her go with the flow make her laugh
This shouldn't be hard, show her your penis.
I would be nervous, ';First impression says all....';
I would show her a lot of money to impress her
nervous and shy and kind of quiet
Bringing my daughter up to be proud of her red hair?
My daughter is a beautiful red-head, and while I'm very proud of this, I know she will have to deal with some bullies in the future.
Her Daddy is a red-head but he dyes it black, so not setting a great example to be proud of her hair colour there lol.
I don't really know how to go about making her proud of her hair instead of hating it. I had blonde, then mousey brown hair as a child, I was bullied for my teeth at one point when my braces went wrong and made my front two teeth stick out further. This has now been fixed.
Any tips for Red-heads or Parents of Red-heads would be great :)
(She's obv too young to understand but I'm just looking for ideas i can work on)Bringing my daughter up to be proud of her red hair?
i have red hair and have never been bullied for it. i think you're imagining something that may never even be an issue.
she will undoubtedly have her challenges in life but there's no reason to think her hair will be among them. actually it never ceases to astonish me how many people dye their hair to make it look red when it didn't start that way. clearly not everyone thinks it's a negative.Bringing my daughter up to be proud of her red hair?
I have never once been teased because of my red hair. I find it odd that people would pick on someone because of their hair color. My daughter is a red head (as I am, obviously) and I am going to teach her to be proud of who she is, red hair and all.
ETA~ Maybe it is different here in the states in terms of bullying kids about red hair? I hear more about it going on over-seas.
You're mad! Every boy in the world will find it beautiful, and every girl in the world will envy it. Everybody loves redheads, it's the most beautiful color in the world for hair. My husband is a redhead and I am expecting a daughter, I'd give SERIOUS money for her to be a redhead too, but sadly the odds are against it. Teach her to live it up and show it off, it's a rare gift of the genes and she should treasure it!
hm... I don't have any tips but just wanted to comment because my niece has red hair and HAS been bullied about it. She is only 6 years old and has lots of freckles and red hair and gets teased about it fairly often. She hates her hair, and my brother-in law and sister-in law don't know what to do about it. We all (the whole family) tell her how beautiful she is and how we LOVE her hair and wish we (the women anyway) had hair like hers, but she doesn't believe it. We just hope she will grow to realize how lucky she is one day and truly appreciate it. Kids can and will be mean. They will find anything and everything they can to tease other children about. All we can do is assure our kids that they are normal and that the bullies are the ones with the issues. All will work itself out in time.
I have also never heard of redheads being teased about their hair. Usually when I hear people talking about them, it's because of their gorgeous red hair. Redheads are typically pretty uncommon and are generally gorgeous.
Granted kids can tease about anything and everything, and will, I doubt her hair will be a problem. But Daddy dying his hair because it's red, that might be a bigger issue than any child's teasing. If she is a daddy's girl through and through, she'll be wondering why he is ashamed of his hair and should she be as well.
i think it's inevitable. my son is 5 and has the reddest hair ever. has since birth. he hasn't had to deal with bullies yet BUT he hates when little old ladies come up to him in the store and touch his head and say how they just love his hair. this happens almost everytime we are in public. he gets so angry. one day he even snapped and in a rude tone said please don't touch me again have you ever heard of stranger danger, i will report you LMAO!! he's a trip. luckily he has nor freckles yet and shows no sign of them so we'll see how that goes. she'll hate it for awhile but when she gets older i'm sure she'll love it. i dye my hair red half the time. it is truly a pretty color.
You may be worried over nothing but if it does come up in the future, show her the movie ';The Little Mermaid';. Ariel has red hair and she's a princess.tvs skin cancer
Her Daddy is a red-head but he dyes it black, so not setting a great example to be proud of her hair colour there lol.
I don't really know how to go about making her proud of her hair instead of hating it. I had blonde, then mousey brown hair as a child, I was bullied for my teeth at one point when my braces went wrong and made my front two teeth stick out further. This has now been fixed.
Any tips for Red-heads or Parents of Red-heads would be great :)
(She's obv too young to understand but I'm just looking for ideas i can work on)Bringing my daughter up to be proud of her red hair?
i have red hair and have never been bullied for it. i think you're imagining something that may never even be an issue.
she will undoubtedly have her challenges in life but there's no reason to think her hair will be among them. actually it never ceases to astonish me how many people dye their hair to make it look red when it didn't start that way. clearly not everyone thinks it's a negative.Bringing my daughter up to be proud of her red hair?
I have never once been teased because of my red hair. I find it odd that people would pick on someone because of their hair color. My daughter is a red head (as I am, obviously) and I am going to teach her to be proud of who she is, red hair and all.
ETA~ Maybe it is different here in the states in terms of bullying kids about red hair? I hear more about it going on over-seas.
You're mad! Every boy in the world will find it beautiful, and every girl in the world will envy it. Everybody loves redheads, it's the most beautiful color in the world for hair. My husband is a redhead and I am expecting a daughter, I'd give SERIOUS money for her to be a redhead too, but sadly the odds are against it. Teach her to live it up and show it off, it's a rare gift of the genes and she should treasure it!
hm... I don't have any tips but just wanted to comment because my niece has red hair and HAS been bullied about it. She is only 6 years old and has lots of freckles and red hair and gets teased about it fairly often. She hates her hair, and my brother-in law and sister-in law don't know what to do about it. We all (the whole family) tell her how beautiful she is and how we LOVE her hair and wish we (the women anyway) had hair like hers, but she doesn't believe it. We just hope she will grow to realize how lucky she is one day and truly appreciate it. Kids can and will be mean. They will find anything and everything they can to tease other children about. All we can do is assure our kids that they are normal and that the bullies are the ones with the issues. All will work itself out in time.
I have also never heard of redheads being teased about their hair. Usually when I hear people talking about them, it's because of their gorgeous red hair. Redheads are typically pretty uncommon and are generally gorgeous.
Granted kids can tease about anything and everything, and will, I doubt her hair will be a problem. But Daddy dying his hair because it's red, that might be a bigger issue than any child's teasing. If she is a daddy's girl through and through, she'll be wondering why he is ashamed of his hair and should she be as well.
i think it's inevitable. my son is 5 and has the reddest hair ever. has since birth. he hasn't had to deal with bullies yet BUT he hates when little old ladies come up to him in the store and touch his head and say how they just love his hair. this happens almost everytime we are in public. he gets so angry. one day he even snapped and in a rude tone said please don't touch me again have you ever heard of stranger danger, i will report you LMAO!! he's a trip. luckily he has nor freckles yet and shows no sign of them so we'll see how that goes. she'll hate it for awhile but when she gets older i'm sure she'll love it. i dye my hair red half the time. it is truly a pretty color.
You may be worried over nothing but if it does come up in the future, show her the movie ';The Little Mermaid';. Ariel has red hair and she's a princess.
How to deal with friend drama?
okay im a 15 year old girl and im having lots of friend drama im like 5,7 and am very flirty and social i have this friend who is a lil over weight and she gets mad at me when i hang with guys or other people at all she says that other people make her feel weird so when im with her she just wants to stay home how can we still hang out with her but have fun with other peopleHow to deal with friend drama?
Try to include her when you hang out with other people. Maybe she feels this way because when you DO hang out with other people, you kind of go on your own and forget about her. Bring her to a party or something and introduce her around, make her feel comfortable. (:How to deal with friend drama?
'; Hey. WHy r u so shy? I like talking to people... but you don't. We need to get ya out of your shell. Nothing to hide or be ashamed of, and if people find out how cool you are...the same way when you talk to me, people are gonna wanna talk to you?';
Try to include her when you hang out with other people. Maybe she feels this way because when you DO hang out with other people, you kind of go on your own and forget about her. Bring her to a party or something and introduce her around, make her feel comfortable. (:How to deal with friend drama?
'; Hey. WHy r u so shy? I like talking to people... but you don't. We need to get ya out of your shell. Nothing to hide or be ashamed of, and if people find out how cool you are...the same way when you talk to me, people are gonna wanna talk to you?';
How should i tell her?
I recently broke up with a long-time girlfriend. We talked and she wants to get back together. She has gotten the idea that I sort of want to get back together, which is incorrect. I do care about her, but I know a relationship between us won't work out.
How do i let her down without crushing her?How should i tell her?
By treading very carefully. But there is no real easy way of saying it though. Showing softness and sensitivity will help, but also being firm and to the point. Effectively say pretty much what you have said here. She will get over the relationship and find someone more suited to her. Just make it very clearly that you no longer want to be seen as a boyfriendHow should i tell her?
There probably is no way to do this without crushing her. She is obviously still in love with you because she wants to give it one more go.
Do things the way you see appropriate. Let her know that if it's OK, you still wanna be friends. I'm sure you will try your best to let her down easily.
Talk to her about a new girl in your life. Make it VERY CLEAR that you are not interested.
The key to starting a new relationship is ambiguity, so the key to ending an old relationship should be being perfectly candid and ingenuous.
well first just make sure its in person. and dont apologize while doing it. apologizing means you feel bad and you dont want her to thing there is any reason left for you to stay. tell her whats really going on and be straight forward. sorry i cant help more
There is no easy way. However, be careful about sending her mixed signals. You should perhaps ease up on your association with her until she is ready to just be friends.
Tell her that you just dont feel the same way she does.
Theres no future for the two of you %26amp; she'll find someone in no time.
Just tell her you no longer like her in that why.
Just grow some balls and be honest with her
Just tell her straight up, dont lead her on.
just tell her how u feel
How do i let her down without crushing her?How should i tell her?
By treading very carefully. But there is no real easy way of saying it though. Showing softness and sensitivity will help, but also being firm and to the point. Effectively say pretty much what you have said here. She will get over the relationship and find someone more suited to her. Just make it very clearly that you no longer want to be seen as a boyfriendHow should i tell her?
There probably is no way to do this without crushing her. She is obviously still in love with you because she wants to give it one more go.
Do things the way you see appropriate. Let her know that if it's OK, you still wanna be friends. I'm sure you will try your best to let her down easily.
Talk to her about a new girl in your life. Make it VERY CLEAR that you are not interested.
The key to starting a new relationship is ambiguity, so the key to ending an old relationship should be being perfectly candid and ingenuous.
well first just make sure its in person. and dont apologize while doing it. apologizing means you feel bad and you dont want her to thing there is any reason left for you to stay. tell her whats really going on and be straight forward. sorry i cant help more
There is no easy way. However, be careful about sending her mixed signals. You should perhaps ease up on your association with her until she is ready to just be friends.
Tell her that you just dont feel the same way she does.
Theres no future for the two of you %26amp; she'll find someone in no time.
Just tell her you no longer like her in that why.
Just grow some balls and be honest with her
Just tell her straight up, dont lead her on.
just tell her how u feel
People with social anxiety disorder - how to do you manage?
I feel like my anxiety is getting a lot worse. I also have depression (possibly it is bipolar). I'm 19 and I don't feel like doing anything anymore. I am on my gap year and will be starting uni in October (which I am dreading). I've been looking for a job for over a year, but the sort of work I look for is limited, because I hate having to deal with people. So I mainly look for cleaning. I am on job seekers allowance but only for a few weeks longer. Since last summer I've been working at a charity shop twice a week, but lately I've been finding it a whole lot harder to cope with. Last week I drank a bit of alcohol because I was so scared, but it didn't even help. I used to be able to be sort of fake and act all sweet around the people I work with, but now when they ask me to do tasks that make me feel like they treat me like their slave, I can't hide my attitude on my face, and I'm less willing to try and engage with them. I've got work tomorrow and I'm so scared, I might say I can't make it..
A couple of weeks ago also, I went to my boyfriend's house and I was so nervous about meeting his mum that I drank some vodka. It helped a tiny bit, but I could still not talk to her. I drank some more when he took me to meet one of his friends yet it did not help at all, I barely could speak to his friend and I probably came across as rude. When we left his friend I was just crying because it feel so futile, whatever I do.People with social anxiety disorder - how to do you manage?
I have it, and I hardly manage. You're lucky you have a boyfriend though! I've never had a boyfriend because my social anxiety is so bad. But yeah, I can relate a bit to your situation. I graduated school back in December and still haven't looked for a job because I'm terrified of the whole thing. There's no possible way I can come off as charismatic and likable in an interview. I remember I dreaded college when I started too. The first week or so was fine because I was on an anti-depressant, but it stopped working and I was back to being scared and miserable. My hair thinned a lot that year because I was under so much stress. And whenever I had to give an oral presentation throughout school, I would drink vodka beforehand or else I physically could not give a presentation. I'm currently just trying to get some medications that might help me more than the stuff I've been put on recently. Until then however, I just don't think I'll be able to get the courage to look for a job. Just be grateful that you have a job for now, and do your best at it. Getting on some medication might help you; you just have to find what works for you. I can't really offer that much advice because I'm still trying to figure it all out myself, but I hope my situation has shown you that you're not alone! :)People with social anxiety disorder - how to do you manage?
You need to see a therapist or psychiatrist. Do it soon. The longer you leave it the more vunerable you are to mental disorders, eating disorder, drug/alcahol addictions and even suicide.
You need to get a proper diagnosis. Then you need to take the right medication. It;s daft to start drinking - you need to get to grips with this.
A couple of weeks ago also, I went to my boyfriend's house and I was so nervous about meeting his mum that I drank some vodka. It helped a tiny bit, but I could still not talk to her. I drank some more when he took me to meet one of his friends yet it did not help at all, I barely could speak to his friend and I probably came across as rude. When we left his friend I was just crying because it feel so futile, whatever I do.People with social anxiety disorder - how to do you manage?
I have it, and I hardly manage. You're lucky you have a boyfriend though! I've never had a boyfriend because my social anxiety is so bad. But yeah, I can relate a bit to your situation. I graduated school back in December and still haven't looked for a job because I'm terrified of the whole thing. There's no possible way I can come off as charismatic and likable in an interview. I remember I dreaded college when I started too. The first week or so was fine because I was on an anti-depressant, but it stopped working and I was back to being scared and miserable. My hair thinned a lot that year because I was under so much stress. And whenever I had to give an oral presentation throughout school, I would drink vodka beforehand or else I physically could not give a presentation. I'm currently just trying to get some medications that might help me more than the stuff I've been put on recently. Until then however, I just don't think I'll be able to get the courage to look for a job. Just be grateful that you have a job for now, and do your best at it. Getting on some medication might help you; you just have to find what works for you. I can't really offer that much advice because I'm still trying to figure it all out myself, but I hope my situation has shown you that you're not alone! :)People with social anxiety disorder - how to do you manage?
You need to see a therapist or psychiatrist. Do it soon. The longer you leave it the more vunerable you are to mental disorders, eating disorder, drug/alcahol addictions and even suicide.
You need to get a proper diagnosis. Then you need to take the right medication. It;s daft to start drinking - you need to get to grips with this.
How often do you put your 2 month old to do tummy time?
I usually put her down to do tummy time three times a day. Should I put her on her tummy more often?
Also, does your baby fall asleep while doing tummy time?How often do you put your 2 month old to do tummy time?
Three times is plenty. With the first one, we did tummy time at least 0.5 hr daily. With the second one, we haven't even started (also two months old now), but he is doing great regardless.
Our first one never feel asleep during tummy time unless he was getting tummy time on someone's chest.How often do you put your 2 month old to do tummy time?
Sounds like you are doing great, babies at that age need at least 10 minutes of tummy time each day. I used to put her on her tummy several times a day because she didn't enjoy staying on her tummy for any longer than a minute. She is four months old now and enjoys her tummy time. She never fell asleep on her tummy because she was too fussy about it, but it is normal for babies to fall asleep, it is a comfortable position for them although not recommended they stay on their belly while sleeping.
Also, does your baby fall asleep while doing tummy time?How often do you put your 2 month old to do tummy time?
Three times is plenty. With the first one, we did tummy time at least 0.5 hr daily. With the second one, we haven't even started (also two months old now), but he is doing great regardless.
Our first one never feel asleep during tummy time unless he was getting tummy time on someone's chest.How often do you put your 2 month old to do tummy time?
Sounds like you are doing great, babies at that age need at least 10 minutes of tummy time each day. I used to put her on her tummy several times a day because she didn't enjoy staying on her tummy for any longer than a minute. She is four months old now and enjoys her tummy time. She never fell asleep on her tummy because she was too fussy about it, but it is normal for babies to fall asleep, it is a comfortable position for them although not recommended they stay on their belly while sleeping.
How can i get her to love me?
We both are living in two different countries.I met her on facebook.I probably like her.I asked her to be mine but she refused and said that she dont feel the same way like i do but she is my friend and she will be there for me no matter what.I was getting crazy in her love.Now i think she started hating me.Can any one help me ?How can i get her to love me?
I can't stress this enough! You CAN NOT get people to love you, it is their opinion. It is not as if you just say something to her and she will be like ';oh I must have you now'; It doe snot work like that. Sorry if I upset you, it just frustrates me.How can i get her to love me?
You can not love someone you do not know. She could be lying to you or omitting important parts of herself. She could even be a guy fr all you know. That is not love. You just sound desperate. Give up and find someone you can spend time with and enjoy your life with. You are wasting it on a long distance relationship with someone you barely know. Even when you know the person and they have to leave, long distance relationships rarely ever work. Find happiness with someone that is willing to love you, just as you can love them.
you just contradicted yourself in your question. you just said you probably like her but then you say you're crazy in love with her. you don't even know how you feel but you're saying you're in love. you aren't in love you're just lusting for someone. you can't make someone love you. there's no manual on how to get certain types of women to love you. if you want someone to love you then you have to be yourself and the right person might love you.
I can't stress this enough! You CAN NOT get people to love you, it is their opinion. It is not as if you just say something to her and she will be like ';oh I must have you now'; It doe snot work like that. Sorry if I upset you, it just frustrates me.How can i get her to love me?
You can not love someone you do not know. She could be lying to you or omitting important parts of herself. She could even be a guy fr all you know. That is not love. You just sound desperate. Give up and find someone you can spend time with and enjoy your life with. You are wasting it on a long distance relationship with someone you barely know. Even when you know the person and they have to leave, long distance relationships rarely ever work. Find happiness with someone that is willing to love you, just as you can love them.
you just contradicted yourself in your question. you just said you probably like her but then you say you're crazy in love with her. you don't even know how you feel but you're saying you're in love. you aren't in love you're just lusting for someone. you can't make someone love you. there's no manual on how to get certain types of women to love you. if you want someone to love you then you have to be yourself and the right person might love you.
How to ask your mom for a bra?
im 14 and i dont have a bra. ive gone through almost one whole year of 9th grade. it feels like im the only girl out there without one. some times it can get very embarrassing. i want to feel and be treated my age, not some 10 year old that is treated like a little kid. once i was even called a 10 year old by a kid. what am i supposed to do. my friends make fun of it and even tell other people i dont like and then they make fun of me. also it feels like people dont want to be my friend because of it. all of my friends wear one and they talk about it too right in front of me, i feel akward. i need a way to ask my mom for one. i cant go up to her and do it and theres no way im going behind her back and buying one. even though i havent gone through puberty and im still flat, but theres got to be a point that you kind of just have to get one. come on what am i supposed to do... get a bra when im 17? hah i hope not.
just even comment if you are in the same situation or was and what you are doing or didHow to ask your mom for a bra?
ew how do u change in gym?How to ask your mom for a bra?
well just ask your mom
in the end she'll end up buying one anyways
your girl, cmon
I'm not sure why you can't just ask her for one...if you need a convoluted excuse, say that you would like to get some sports bras for P.E., and while you're out shopping try on some other, regular bras and ask her to buy them.
Also, if your ';friends'; are poking fun at you, they're not ';friends'; at all. That's the lamest thing to make fun off. Everyone develops at different times. And the part about people not liking you because you don't wear a bra; that's all in your head sweetie. If you're as flat as you claim to be, people likely don't even notice.
Honey, every woman has to wear a bra...Don't be embarrassed about this. I'm surprised your mom hasn't talked to you about this....Anyways, just sit down with your mom and tell her that it's time to go bra shopping....It can actually be a fun thing buying pretty/cute bras...
Good luck and don' t be embarrassed!
You have no reason to be embarrassed about wanting to get a bra. Ask your mom to go shopping at a store that sells bras, like Target. Then while your there say that you need to get bras. Its really simple and not even made a big deal. Im sure your mom will e happy to help you out! Good Luck! Dont be embarrassed, its part of growing up!
just be like ';Hey mom do you think you can take me to go get some bras? tank tops are really not for me no more and i would feel more comfortable in a bra.'; it's really that easy why wouldn't she buy you one in the first place come on your 14 years old im sure she will buy you one
When i asked my mom i just told her that i didn't want to change in gym without one and that an undershirt made it too many layers to wear all day. Just ask her. it isn't too bad when its over. And even if you are a little flat you can still get training bras that look like real ones but don't have wires and some that aren't padded
ok just be like mom im getting old and im not a little princess i have boobs and i need a bra....... she'll understand and if she says no be like im the only girl in skool without a bra and it feels really wierd.....
Yeah, there comes a point where it doesn't matter if you've got anything up there, you just need to get a bra... it helps you to get used to them. Just go to your mom and tell her that you feel like you need to at least get a training bra so you can get used to them... she's gone through the whole bra-buying thing as well, and she'll understand. There's no need to feel embarrassed... even if you haven't quite hit puberty yet, it's still perfectly fine to wear a training bra at your age.
As for your friends, you need to tell them to chill! The fact that they're saying stuff about you behind your back... yeah, they just need to knock it off.
Had the same problem and im in 7th. actually last friday i had that problem. So we went shopping for spring/summer clothes last weekend and we went into Victoria's secret. I walked past a bra that was cute and just said hey that's really cute and she grabbed a few other cute ones and told me to try them on. i ended up getting 5 lol. so i would just make a casual hint and if that doesn't work just be like MOM CAN I GET A BRA PLEASE! i mean if the hint doesn't work then you need to flat out say it!
okay well first things first ignore all the rude comments.:( and two my cousin was in the same boat as you. its fine :). i say just ask her to go to the mall and once your there just ask her if you could have a training bra and even some real bras. just be straight about it. and i know how you feel about it being awkward to talk to your mom about that stuff. :) so just do it. everything turns out fine in the end.:) because all in all i think a mom would be excited to go bra shoping with you. i know my mom was. :)
hey im 14 too and im a little flat too lol but anyways i went through the same thing in 7th grade. i told my mom i wanted a padded bra because it was embarrassing to change in gym and i was too big for training bras. she totally understood and took me shopping. anyways i just think you should have a serious conversation with your mom and tell her that your growing up and you feel its time you should get a bra. im sure she'll understand. i mean was a young girl once. just buy some training bras to start and later on move on to padded bras. i hope i helped with your situation. good luck(:tvs skin cancer
just even comment if you are in the same situation or was and what you are doing or didHow to ask your mom for a bra?
ew how do u change in gym?How to ask your mom for a bra?
well just ask your mom
in the end she'll end up buying one anyways
your girl, cmon
I'm not sure why you can't just ask her for one...if you need a convoluted excuse, say that you would like to get some sports bras for P.E., and while you're out shopping try on some other, regular bras and ask her to buy them.
Also, if your ';friends'; are poking fun at you, they're not ';friends'; at all. That's the lamest thing to make fun off. Everyone develops at different times. And the part about people not liking you because you don't wear a bra; that's all in your head sweetie. If you're as flat as you claim to be, people likely don't even notice.
Honey, every woman has to wear a bra...Don't be embarrassed about this. I'm surprised your mom hasn't talked to you about this....Anyways, just sit down with your mom and tell her that it's time to go bra shopping....It can actually be a fun thing buying pretty/cute bras...
Good luck and don' t be embarrassed!
You have no reason to be embarrassed about wanting to get a bra. Ask your mom to go shopping at a store that sells bras, like Target. Then while your there say that you need to get bras. Its really simple and not even made a big deal. Im sure your mom will e happy to help you out! Good Luck! Dont be embarrassed, its part of growing up!
just be like ';Hey mom do you think you can take me to go get some bras? tank tops are really not for me no more and i would feel more comfortable in a bra.'; it's really that easy why wouldn't she buy you one in the first place come on your 14 years old im sure she will buy you one
When i asked my mom i just told her that i didn't want to change in gym without one and that an undershirt made it too many layers to wear all day. Just ask her. it isn't too bad when its over. And even if you are a little flat you can still get training bras that look like real ones but don't have wires and some that aren't padded
ok just be like mom im getting old and im not a little princess i have boobs and i need a bra....... she'll understand and if she says no be like im the only girl in skool without a bra and it feels really wierd.....
Yeah, there comes a point where it doesn't matter if you've got anything up there, you just need to get a bra... it helps you to get used to them. Just go to your mom and tell her that you feel like you need to at least get a training bra so you can get used to them... she's gone through the whole bra-buying thing as well, and she'll understand. There's no need to feel embarrassed... even if you haven't quite hit puberty yet, it's still perfectly fine to wear a training bra at your age.
As for your friends, you need to tell them to chill! The fact that they're saying stuff about you behind your back... yeah, they just need to knock it off.
Had the same problem and im in 7th. actually last friday i had that problem. So we went shopping for spring/summer clothes last weekend and we went into Victoria's secret. I walked past a bra that was cute and just said hey that's really cute and she grabbed a few other cute ones and told me to try them on. i ended up getting 5 lol. so i would just make a casual hint and if that doesn't work just be like MOM CAN I GET A BRA PLEASE! i mean if the hint doesn't work then you need to flat out say it!
okay well first things first ignore all the rude comments.:( and two my cousin was in the same boat as you. its fine :). i say just ask her to go to the mall and once your there just ask her if you could have a training bra and even some real bras. just be straight about it. and i know how you feel about it being awkward to talk to your mom about that stuff. :) so just do it. everything turns out fine in the end.:) because all in all i think a mom would be excited to go bra shoping with you. i know my mom was. :)
hey im 14 too and im a little flat too lol but anyways i went through the same thing in 7th grade. i told my mom i wanted a padded bra because it was embarrassing to change in gym and i was too big for training bras. she totally understood and took me shopping. anyways i just think you should have a serious conversation with your mom and tell her that your growing up and you feel its time you should get a bra. im sure she'll understand. i mean was a young girl once. just buy some training bras to start and later on move on to padded bras. i hope i helped with your situation. good luck(:
How to cope with a cheap parent.?
My mom is cheap. But not just the normal clip-a-coupon-every-one-in-a-while cheap. She is fully overboard. First, i want to start off saying that i get good grades. I am a good kid who doesn't do drugs or skip school. I help out around the house, yet when i ask my mom to get me something, like a pair of jeans, she gets annoyed. She took me school clothes shopping at the beginning of the year and gave me 150 dollars for the ENTIRE year. I tried explaining to her that that is simply not enough money, but she didn't listen. She taken me a few times to get necesiities since then like underwear, and another pair of jeans. But most of my clothes i buy on my own!! And for Christmas last year, i got a 30$ radio and a few other small gifts...? And when i went through all of my stuff in my room and got rid of it, she said she would sell some of it on craigslist. i agreed. Then, once she sold it, she told me that she was taking a 10% cut! What i don't understand is that my parents make GOOD money. Like over 100,000 a year. Then she told me that if i went out and found anyone else to sell those for me they would ask for the same. But she offered!! Plus, shes my mom! i shouldn't have to pay her when she offers to do something for me! Right? I'm really not trying to be a whiney teenager, because honestly im not. I have always been the most responsible child in my family, even next to my almost seventeen year old sister. I'm 14 by the way. She dropped out of highschool and does online school now! I take piano lessons and do sports. I help out around the house... I need new clothes and i can't convince my mom to get me some that aren't from Ross! Not that their clothes are bad...but have a better selection for summer shopping. She thinks that 30$ iis WAY to much for a pair of jeans. But i literally cant find any clothes anywhere that are cheaper than that and that fit me...what do i do?? By the way, my mom just spent 150 on a japanese slot machine for herself!!! WTF?!?!How to cope with a cheap parent.?
First of all, how do you know she makes that much? Did she tell you? I don't know where you live but here in the US the economy is cutting back because of gas prices and such. Also your lucky when I was a kid I got hand-me-downs for school clothing. My family was well to do as well but we still save money for future use or just in case. The only time I EVER went school clothes shopping was when the school I went to gave my mother money so we could buy clothes at walmart and let me tell you, the pants I bought lasted only 1 year! I never have changed size but they collapsed on me and I had to throw them. Now the $55 hottopic jeans lasted even less. 6 months because I became pregnant and even afterward I can't fit into them. Your mom isn't going to pay oodles of money on clothes that are only going to last a year.
You also have to think as to what bills go out. Water, Electric, food, trash, house, car, house items, personal items, medical bills ect. There's a lot and it's not cheap. So even if your family makes a lot it doesn't matter if it all goes out when they get paid. Go get a job if your not happy.How to cope with a cheap parent.?
I did not read lazy into that post at all, she said she plays piano and is in sports and helps out around the house and keeps her grade up. That is a pretty full schedule in itself. I do have to point out that piano lessons and sports cost a lot of money as well, so she is not cheap in those areas. Maybe ask her what you could do around the house to earn extra money. Ask neighbors if you could mow their lawns. I also do not agree with her taking 10%, that is just weird in my opinion. I would never take a percentage of something my child was trying to sell. Do you ever shop thrift stores? You can find really cute clothes for cheap. But you have to go often and sort through all of it.
The odds are excellent that she thinks she's doing you a wonderful favour, teaching you the value of a dollar and inspiring you to work and teaching you about thrift yadda yadda yadda...
However, I am aware of how that 'lesson' works out when the parents are not pinching pennies themselves. It sucks.
I would have a serious talk with her: tell her you're not looking for big wads of cash to go out and blow, just: Mom, I'm having a hard time here, I'm trying to budget, I'm looking for a job, but, right now, I need you to help me out a bit more... Point out that it is, as she knows, nice to have something that is nice every once in a while. Do keep asking her to take you shopping, so you can show her that there aren't many decent, durable jeans out there for under $30.
And then, since you are in that sort of $150-for-the-year screw-over -- seriously, start checking out thrift shops. A couple of years ago I bought a pair of jeans at the Gap for $90, only to find them for $10 in a thrift store a month later -- my size and everything. Salvation Army, Goodwill, Value Village, whatever you have in your area -- check it out.
Honestly, that doesn't sound that bad. Ok I must admit the 10% cut and the $150 Japanese slot machine is pretty hilarious! Just try to find less expensive clothes, shop the sales lol. Or buy a few quality items that will last at the beginning of the year with the 150. Maybe you could do some extra work to earn extra cash? Or get a job? hehe
Go door to door asking for odd jobs and make your money. The only thing worse then cheap is laziness.
Well..when you make your own money-you get to spend it however you like. So-maybe you should look into getting a job. Babysitting,dog walking. Even volunteer work-it's something you can put on your resume when you turn 16 and start looking for real jobs.
First of all, how do you know she makes that much? Did she tell you? I don't know where you live but here in the US the economy is cutting back because of gas prices and such. Also your lucky when I was a kid I got hand-me-downs for school clothing. My family was well to do as well but we still save money for future use or just in case. The only time I EVER went school clothes shopping was when the school I went to gave my mother money so we could buy clothes at walmart and let me tell you, the pants I bought lasted only 1 year! I never have changed size but they collapsed on me and I had to throw them. Now the $55 hottopic jeans lasted even less. 6 months because I became pregnant and even afterward I can't fit into them. Your mom isn't going to pay oodles of money on clothes that are only going to last a year.
You also have to think as to what bills go out. Water, Electric, food, trash, house, car, house items, personal items, medical bills ect. There's a lot and it's not cheap. So even if your family makes a lot it doesn't matter if it all goes out when they get paid. Go get a job if your not happy.How to cope with a cheap parent.?
I did not read lazy into that post at all, she said she plays piano and is in sports and helps out around the house and keeps her grade up. That is a pretty full schedule in itself. I do have to point out that piano lessons and sports cost a lot of money as well, so she is not cheap in those areas. Maybe ask her what you could do around the house to earn extra money. Ask neighbors if you could mow their lawns. I also do not agree with her taking 10%, that is just weird in my opinion. I would never take a percentage of something my child was trying to sell. Do you ever shop thrift stores? You can find really cute clothes for cheap. But you have to go often and sort through all of it.
The odds are excellent that she thinks she's doing you a wonderful favour, teaching you the value of a dollar and inspiring you to work and teaching you about thrift yadda yadda yadda...
However, I am aware of how that 'lesson' works out when the parents are not pinching pennies themselves. It sucks.
I would have a serious talk with her: tell her you're not looking for big wads of cash to go out and blow, just: Mom, I'm having a hard time here, I'm trying to budget, I'm looking for a job, but, right now, I need you to help me out a bit more... Point out that it is, as she knows, nice to have something that is nice every once in a while. Do keep asking her to take you shopping, so you can show her that there aren't many decent, durable jeans out there for under $30.
And then, since you are in that sort of $150-for-the-year screw-over -- seriously, start checking out thrift shops. A couple of years ago I bought a pair of jeans at the Gap for $90, only to find them for $10 in a thrift store a month later -- my size and everything. Salvation Army, Goodwill, Value Village, whatever you have in your area -- check it out.
Honestly, that doesn't sound that bad. Ok I must admit the 10% cut and the $150 Japanese slot machine is pretty hilarious! Just try to find less expensive clothes, shop the sales lol. Or buy a few quality items that will last at the beginning of the year with the 150. Maybe you could do some extra work to earn extra cash? Or get a job? hehe
Go door to door asking for odd jobs and make your money. The only thing worse then cheap is laziness.
Well..when you make your own money-you get to spend it however you like. So-maybe you should look into getting a job. Babysitting,dog walking. Even volunteer work-it's something you can put on your resume when you turn 16 and start looking for real jobs.
How to help a freind?
ok my freind is having issues not with me but forgetting a freind who is messing up her life how can i solve this i need it to stop!!How to help a freind?
Your friend is the one that needs to make the choice to stop the harmful relationship. I'm sorry but it isn't for you to decide. Friendship is not controlling others. However, you may be able to influence her decision to avoid spending time %26amp; being influenced by the person. Stay close to her, allow her to confide in you, %26amp; give her positive feedback. By that I mean instead of saying negative things about the person who is a bad influence on her (you may have already made your feelings known), but by saying positive things about what good choices there may be for her. Maybe try to get her involved in positive activities. Be a good role model. Be respectful to her about her feelings about this other person. Give her the space to have whatever feelings she may have, regardless of how you feel. Be a good listener. Allow her time to process her feelings in her own way. She may experience grief at the loss of the other friendship. You sound like you are very concerned for her. Make sure that she knows that you will be there for her no matter what her decision is, but stand firm that you won't partake in what ever toxicity that she is allowing the other person to subject her to. State your feelings as fact, without any drama, then allow her to decide what choices she'll make. Remember that neither of you are responsible for the others' feelings. Take good care of your own feelings as well. You may get your feelings hurt by her decisions. Allow yourself to take care of those feelings. You may need to distance yourself from your friend a bit to take care of you. Nurture your loving nature. Be wise %26amp; remember that we all have our own path to walk. Best wishes to you %26amp; to your friend who is fortunate to have you walking with her.
Your friend is the one that needs to make the choice to stop the harmful relationship. I'm sorry but it isn't for you to decide. Friendship is not controlling others. However, you may be able to influence her decision to avoid spending time %26amp; being influenced by the person. Stay close to her, allow her to confide in you, %26amp; give her positive feedback. By that I mean instead of saying negative things about the person who is a bad influence on her (you may have already made your feelings known), but by saying positive things about what good choices there may be for her. Maybe try to get her involved in positive activities. Be a good role model. Be respectful to her about her feelings about this other person. Give her the space to have whatever feelings she may have, regardless of how you feel. Be a good listener. Allow her time to process her feelings in her own way. She may experience grief at the loss of the other friendship. You sound like you are very concerned for her. Make sure that she knows that you will be there for her no matter what her decision is, but stand firm that you won't partake in what ever toxicity that she is allowing the other person to subject her to. State your feelings as fact, without any drama, then allow her to decide what choices she'll make. Remember that neither of you are responsible for the others' feelings. Take good care of your own feelings as well. You may get your feelings hurt by her decisions. Allow yourself to take care of those feelings. You may need to distance yourself from your friend a bit to take care of you. Nurture your loving nature. Be wise %26amp; remember that we all have our own path to walk. Best wishes to you %26amp; to your friend who is fortunate to have you walking with her.
How to get my ex boyfriend back?
my boyfriend and i have been together for 1 yr and 8 months.. and he broke up with me because he likes one of my cousin and he held a grudge of what i done in the past. we were so good to each other, everybody thought we was going to last for a very long time. everybody would always have something to say about the both of us. i thought we were ment to be. but all of a sudden he started to talk to my cousin and is gettin attracted to her... he like her because of her personality...... maybe cause she is almost everything of me or somethings are better.... and she is like a little girl in the family.......
tell me what to do... i been cryin my eyes off ever since we broke up.... i cant help myself.....How to get my ex boyfriend back?
A guy like that is no good for you, why would you want him back. I mean he's interested in talking to your younger cousin. Man listen you need to leave him in the dust and get a grip of yourself, shame on your cousin. Find someone better and flaunt it in his face. This is what he wants to see you all stressed out like this over him. Send your cousin to hell and let her know hey you got my sloppy seconds but its alright because what is that guy doing for you?How to get my ex boyfriend back?
its hard to answer without knowing what you did in the past...if its something he has tried to forgive you for maybe he just cant and if i wasnt your cousin he fell for then it would be some other girl...you can only ask him if there is definetly o chance of you ever getting back..if he says no then im afraid you will have to go through your grieving process...lean on your family and friends...trust time is a healer you never know who else is out there for you...good luck.x
If he likes your cousin better then you?....then there's nothing you can seemingly do but wish him and your cousin good luck really.
He's gonna have to want to come back to you first...all on his own validity of course.
If he doesn't really have that sorta kinda feeling for you presently?....then there's not much anyone can do seriously....not even you!
I'm sorry your new ex boyfriend has taken up with your cousin seriously.
I'd like to think my cousins wouldn't do this kinda stuff obviously....but yours does!
Pull up your boot straps darlin....cause another more fabulous more loyal guy will be coming along shortly in your life soon...but only if you rid yourself of the pain and misery of the now old ex boyfriend pleasingly.
Don't be with someone to forget someone though sweet sister.
That's kinda sorta the game your ex plays with you by being with your cousin.
Pretty low stuff...I know!
You have better men coming to you in the future though....so don't be stuck in miseryville forever....understood.
Someday maybe Karma will hit him too....and that's gonna be the moment he thinks of you again sweetie....pretty cool huh?
Good luck!
Email me back if you need more encouragement....cause God and life don't sit around waiting for anyone sweet darlin....not even me here reasonably....and not even you here either...understood?
Go now....and love and greet your new life.....COOL?
Git going now...ya hear?
tell me what to do... i been cryin my eyes off ever since we broke up.... i cant help myself.....How to get my ex boyfriend back?
A guy like that is no good for you, why would you want him back. I mean he's interested in talking to your younger cousin. Man listen you need to leave him in the dust and get a grip of yourself, shame on your cousin. Find someone better and flaunt it in his face. This is what he wants to see you all stressed out like this over him. Send your cousin to hell and let her know hey you got my sloppy seconds but its alright because what is that guy doing for you?How to get my ex boyfriend back?
its hard to answer without knowing what you did in the past...if its something he has tried to forgive you for maybe he just cant and if i wasnt your cousin he fell for then it would be some other girl...you can only ask him if there is definetly o chance of you ever getting back..if he says no then im afraid you will have to go through your grieving process...lean on your family and friends...trust time is a healer you never know who else is out there for you...good luck.x
If he likes your cousin better then you?....then there's nothing you can seemingly do but wish him and your cousin good luck really.
He's gonna have to want to come back to you first...all on his own validity of course.
If he doesn't really have that sorta kinda feeling for you presently?....then there's not much anyone can do seriously....not even you!
I'm sorry your new ex boyfriend has taken up with your cousin seriously.
I'd like to think my cousins wouldn't do this kinda stuff obviously....but yours does!
Pull up your boot straps darlin....cause another more fabulous more loyal guy will be coming along shortly in your life soon...but only if you rid yourself of the pain and misery of the now old ex boyfriend pleasingly.
Don't be with someone to forget someone though sweet sister.
That's kinda sorta the game your ex plays with you by being with your cousin.
Pretty low stuff...I know!
You have better men coming to you in the future though....so don't be stuck in miseryville forever....understood.
Someday maybe Karma will hit him too....and that's gonna be the moment he thinks of you again sweetie....pretty cool huh?
Good luck!
Email me back if you need more encouragement....cause God and life don't sit around waiting for anyone sweet darlin....not even me here reasonably....and not even you here either...understood?
Go now....and love and greet your new life.....COOL?
Git going now...ya hear?
How to get my friend back?
we were friends for about a year, i know its a short time but we had a connection.
we texted alot and its not very usual for girls to text each other where we live.
then i lost interest in texting, and i guess that was sorta strange for her.
then she started to talk to people that she doesnt really talk to. no offense, but u know, the druggies.
she changed drastically and she seems like a totally different person to me now.
and it has been almost 5 months.we dont talk, its sad.
i know i have to move on, but i want to give one more try to become friends again.
im not comfortable talking to her becuase she is always with her friends and they seem scary ://
p.s. im an insecure girl inside but i try to act tough outside.
Any advices?How to get my friend back?
Who needs that friend. If they aren't still your friend they never were meant to be.How to get my friend back?
become an hero
I wouldn't worry about who she's hanging out with, I think we all need all the friends we can get. Try talking to her again, see if she wants to hang out... if you're not comfortable with her friends, just don't involve them.
Text her and tell her you want to talk to her. You have to tell her how you feel or else she will never know. And if your afraid to approach her in person then text her or write her a letter and send it via facebook or whatever way you can get in contact with her. Tell her you are really hurt by what has happened to you guys.
she's ur friend., u've to take care of her .., if u dint take care., who the hell will do?
u should help her come out of bad things., :)
being a good friend its ur duty to advice her n stop her from not getting into an undesirable company ..... try hard to stop ur frnd from getting spoilt n ruining her own life
It would appear that since your friend is making friends with people who are doing drugs, you are probably right in ceasing the friendship. If she would get in contact with a drug dealer, then she'll have a hell of a time getting out again, and that's bad news. If your gut tells you that her friends are less than savory, it's time to end it. You could try, but in this case I don't think it would be a good choice. If she chooses to ruin her life, it's not for you to fix. Only she can fix the problem herself. Don't let her drag you down with her. It's not worth it, and I've seen people ruin their lives because of these types of friends. Don't get sucked in. There are better friends out there waiting.
we texted alot and its not very usual for girls to text each other where we live.
then i lost interest in texting, and i guess that was sorta strange for her.
then she started to talk to people that she doesnt really talk to. no offense, but u know, the druggies.
she changed drastically and she seems like a totally different person to me now.
and it has been almost 5 months.we dont talk, its sad.
i know i have to move on, but i want to give one more try to become friends again.
im not comfortable talking to her becuase she is always with her friends and they seem scary ://
p.s. im an insecure girl inside but i try to act tough outside.
Any advices?How to get my friend back?
Who needs that friend. If they aren't still your friend they never were meant to be.How to get my friend back?
become an hero
I wouldn't worry about who she's hanging out with, I think we all need all the friends we can get. Try talking to her again, see if she wants to hang out... if you're not comfortable with her friends, just don't involve them.
Text her and tell her you want to talk to her. You have to tell her how you feel or else she will never know. And if your afraid to approach her in person then text her or write her a letter and send it via facebook or whatever way you can get in contact with her. Tell her you are really hurt by what has happened to you guys.
she's ur friend., u've to take care of her .., if u dint take care., who the hell will do?
u should help her come out of bad things., :)
being a good friend its ur duty to advice her n stop her from not getting into an undesirable company ..... try hard to stop ur frnd from getting spoilt n ruining her own life
It would appear that since your friend is making friends with people who are doing drugs, you are probably right in ceasing the friendship. If she would get in contact with a drug dealer, then she'll have a hell of a time getting out again, and that's bad news. If your gut tells you that her friends are less than savory, it's time to end it. You could try, but in this case I don't think it would be a good choice. If she chooses to ruin her life, it's not for you to fix. Only she can fix the problem herself. Don't let her drag you down with her. It's not worth it, and I've seen people ruin their lives because of these types of friends. Don't get sucked in. There are better friends out there waiting.
I am a usa citizenship and i am trying to bring my fiancee to usa?
i am a usa citizenship, and i am trying to bring my fiancee to usa, she is a salvadorian citizenship, but the problem is that her sister already applied for a green card for her but it will take her about 10 to 15 years to get it.
my question is, will it affect if a get married with her ?
and how long does it take if i married her to get the green card?I am a usa citizenship and i am trying to bring my fiancee to usa?
her sisters application is not a problem cancel it with the NVC after she gets it thru you
Follow the flowcharts here
http://familybasedimmigration.com/forum/鈥?/a>
8 to 12 months
my question is, will it affect if a get married with her ?
and how long does it take if i married her to get the green card?I am a usa citizenship and i am trying to bring my fiancee to usa?
her sisters application is not a problem cancel it with the NVC after she gets it thru you
Follow the flowcharts here
http://familybasedimmigration.com/forum/鈥?/a>
8 to 12 months
How to convince my mom to let me get medical marijuana!?
I know this is a little early, but the Pennsylvania medical marijuana bill is being voted on next Tuesday, and I am wondering if anybody has suggestions as to how I can convince my mother to allow me to get the medical marijuana prescription. I have rheumatoid arthritis AND crohn's disease, so there would be no problem whatsoever (in that department) with obtaining the card. I am also nineteen years old. The only problem is that my mother works at the hospital and buys my current medications for me since it is so convenient for her to just pick them up at work. I have to take nine pills a day, which is absolutely terrible...so I am really banking on this bill being passed. If it does, I definitely want to switch over from the pills to medical mary jane...but I don't know how to go about beginning the conversation with my mother. If anybody has some suggestions, they would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much!How to convince my mom to let me get medical marijuana!?
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good luck.
Is it possible to train a monkey to detect apneic episodes?
my sister has central sleep apnea and the cause is unknown. we are unable to accompany her all the time and it would give us peace of mind knowing that someone was with her at all times. she stops breathing approximately 100 times per night and i heard that service monkeys can do all sorts of things. i have researched how to care for monkeys properly. any help is appreciated.Is it possible to train a monkey to detect apneic episodes?
Monkeys can train for anything.Is it possible to train a monkey to detect apneic episodes?
If youre serious, you're way off on the section, but also I wonder how interesting for an anime this would be........
OMG YUS IF YOU GIB THM A INVISABLE DOUNUT. :OOOOOOOO -GASP- IKNOERITESOUNBELIEVEABLE~!!!!!!!!
Monkeys can train for anything.Is it possible to train a monkey to detect apneic episodes?
If youre serious, you're way off on the section, but also I wonder how interesting for an anime this would be........
OMG YUS IF YOU GIB THM A INVISABLE DOUNUT. :OOOOOOOO -GASP- IKNOERITESOUNBELIEVEABLE~!!!!!!!!
Marilyn Monroe and how her legend lives on today.?
okay, so i am doing a research paper on marilyn monroe.
and one of my main topics is how her legend still lives on
to this day. could you guys please give me an internet cite that
has accurate information that could help me with this,
%26amp; also what would a good describing word
for marilyn monroes lifee. as in memorable, or legendary.
but i would like it to be unique.
thank you for your help, it is greatly appreciated. :]Marilyn Monroe and how her legend lives on today.?
No, you're wrong.Marilyn Monroe and how her legend lives on today.?
What legacy? You mean her legacy of a being a sl*t?
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and one of my main topics is how her legend still lives on
to this day. could you guys please give me an internet cite that
has accurate information that could help me with this,
%26amp; also what would a good describing word
for marilyn monroes lifee. as in memorable, or legendary.
but i would like it to be unique.
thank you for your help, it is greatly appreciated. :]Marilyn Monroe and how her legend lives on today.?
No, you're wrong.Marilyn Monroe and how her legend lives on today.?
What legacy? You mean her legacy of a being a sl*t?
Click my link below...
Should I contact my childhood crush, or just leave her be?
This is the main crush I had as a kid, and I just came across her on Facebook the other day. Now, I was wondering what protocol demands in a situation like this. I mean I have always regretted never having the courage to tell her how I felt while we were in school, and yet maybe it's better that way. She was a solid 10, and on a good day I was maybe a 2. Anyway, I'm just looking for some advice if anyone has any, all comments are welcome.
Thanks in advance.Should I contact my childhood crush, or just leave her be?
Go for it!
Who noes wat cud happen?
I was (un)lucky enough to meet my past crush agen in highskool wen i left and i guess we get along pretty well. Lot's of things hav changed and now you get a second shot at this so y not?Should I contact my childhood crush, or just leave her be?
If you dont you will always wonder what if? Go ahead and get it out of the way so you can either move on with your life, or move on with her in your life. I hope it works out for the best, what ever happens, is for the best. Trust me.
Thanks in advance.Should I contact my childhood crush, or just leave her be?
Go for it!
Who noes wat cud happen?
I was (un)lucky enough to meet my past crush agen in highskool wen i left and i guess we get along pretty well. Lot's of things hav changed and now you get a second shot at this so y not?Should I contact my childhood crush, or just leave her be?
If you dont you will always wonder what if? Go ahead and get it out of the way so you can either move on with your life, or move on with her in your life. I hope it works out for the best, what ever happens, is for the best. Trust me.
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