How to talk to a girl that you like for the first time?

there is this girl that i like at school, i am 15 and she is 14 but she is 2 school years below me. i have never actually spoken to her and even when we walk past each other i am too embarassed to even look at her. but i do like her and i have seen the way she looks at me sometimes. how can i make a move? its really hard. do you think after all this and me fanciing her since september she will like me? basically just some advice but please really go into detail. thanks. oh also i am very shy and dont talk much anyway but we are in different years at school, so. oh and also i have a friend who is pretty popular and he is in the same year as her at school, but i am too embarasses to ask him. oh and also again, :) when i asked my friend who his gf was he said the name of the person i fancy, maybe he thought i knew.How to talk to a girl that you like for the first time?
Don't make it a big deal! :)


I personally love shy guys, they are me weakness.


If you can get up the nerve, just walk up to her and say ';Hey...I kinda like you...';





Since you are shy this may be hard. One thing I think is adorable is guys that write a note to the girl on a piece of paper :)





If you are too shy, just be friends with her first! Start with saying ';hi'; to her in the hallways and such. If you guys become friends it will be much easier. My boyfriend and I are together because he is shy, and anyway we became good friends and I started to really like him. Since he is the shy one I told him I like him and turns out, he liked me too the whole time.





Girls find it sweet, just be yourself.





About the friend thing, just ask around. Chances are if they aren't ';public'; with their relationship, they don't really have one. Have you told your friend you like her? If he knows than that is a total douche move...no offense to him or anything :)





If you think he is using her, you need to tell her %26amp; also tell her how you feel.


However, he is your friend and if he has true feelings for her and she is happy, you need to let them be. It's only high school! Chances are they aren't going to last that long anyway, and if they break up and you still have feelings for her, go for it!





Good Luck! (:


Cheers.How to talk to a girl that you like for the first time?
If you two are both on facebook become friends and just simply start by saying hi, ask her how she is and about her day and the conversation should start from there. If not you should tell your friend, if she knows you like her maybe she'll make the first move.


Keep making eye contact and when you catch her eye give her a smile, just let her know you like and it should come together.


Good luck
Compliment her. (Her hair, her clothes, something about her). After the ice is broken, then move on to if she has a boyfriend, if she'd like to go out.......the conversation should flow after that!!
If you are too embarassed to look at her, you have been sending her the wrong messages. She may think you are intentionally ignoring her. Act quickly.
start talking about something you're both familiar with
well if you want her to notice you, you gatta talk to her and make urslef shine.
say hi whats up and then go from there
say hi
Just walk up to her and introduce yourself.





';Hi, I'm JoJo. I've seen you around and wanted you to know that I think those are awesome shoes. OK, really I don't know much about shoes, but couldn't think of another reason to talk to you.';





As dumb as this might sound it works. If she likes you, she will respond and a conversation will start. If she doesn't, then there will be an akward silence and you can tell her, ';hope you have a great afternoon.'; and move on. Don't even think about asking her out or doing anything other than just establishing a short conversation you can build on later.





No matter the result with this girl, I promise that this will work at least three out of five times. Fortune favors the bold my friend. Be brave. :)
well im a female and this is the way that i would want a boy to approach me if he tryna be wit me..go ahead and speak ( hello ) how are you ? stuff like that spit game ya know ask her if she singe but flirt a little at the same time ! then ask her if she single if she says yes then give her your number dont ask for hers if she wants you to have it she will give it to you and tell her to maybe call you sometime and ask her if she wants to hang out..take her somewhere to eat or walk through the park and talk then go from there !! good luck i know its hard
Well, from the way you write (fancy, *giggle*), it seems like you're a gentleman, which is a good thing. First, try to find a common interest (possibly before you speak to her). When you do talk, don't act like a total freak and try to be all smooth and 'Casanovaish'. Just be yourself and have a reason to be talking to her, so you don't hit an uncomfortable pause. Be nice, look her in the eye, and make sure you hair and clothes look good. Even though you should hope she isn't shallow, it doesn't hurt to make yourself look nice.
Oooo, this is a tough one, since your shy its easier trying to talk to her ';online';, Facebook/msn/yahoo her/myspace her. I'm sure she'll accept you friend request. :) Once you start chatting online, you will know some things about her, and so you will know how to strike up conversations and know what to say. For e.g if she likes a certain band, do some research on them, know there songs, and hey you mitee even like them so you'll be able to talk about them with her!


Hope this helps!
Wait till you are in your thirties. By this time you will have the courage, trust me!


After she goes through her divorce and you see her at the local bar trashed. That's when you make the first move. Tell her about the crush you had on her in school and include how you were really shy. She will melt in your hands. Hopefully she is still really cute!! Win Win


Or you can find out what she likes, and strike up a conversation now!


If you fail now, you will still have the whole local bar thing later!
Ok padawan here's how this is going to go down.





You're going to stop being a little ***** and man up now. Go up to her before lunch and say ';Hi';. Introduce yourself and tell her that she caught your eye. Literally say that. Say ';Hi my name is soandso and you really caught my eye. I was wondering if you'd like to eat lunch with me';





Once you are chilling and talking keep the conversation about her. Don't over-compliment her but let her know that you think she's cute. Ask questions about her and learn what you can about her. Not only does this show interest but hey you like this girl right? You should want to know more about her.





Biggest thing here is to man-up. Don't puss-out. Stand up and confidently ask her to hang out with you. If she says no then find the next prettiest girl you have a crush on and try again :)





Good luck stud. Time to make these girls want you.